2007-10-15 01:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not cheating, it's an option. If they're happy, they probably won't do it. So if you're not getting what you (or your mate) think or feel you should out of your current "relationship", you may think of trying something or someone different. How will you ever know what works best if you don't try different things?
2007-10-15 01:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One very respected columnist said it was "stupidity" or doing something "stupid" at the time. I have to agree.
When my spouse came home with a "sob story" she thought I was going to feel sorry for her. We had four kids, we're building our home. Both had good jobs, married for twelve years. She got into a relationship that she was conned into, I knew the guy, he had a reputation for this. She was stupid enough to fall for it.
Instead of trying to rebuild her relationship, she went out and further ruined it. We eventually got back together but, it was never the same and, I was stupid for allowing her to come back to our, my, home after two years. Her reputation followed her. It's all water over the dam now and were to old to argue, both lives lost to frivilous feelings that should never have happen.
The guy, by the way, has paid for it, his wife kicked him out after several times with other women and, he's on the street and a town drunk.
2007-10-15 08:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people cheat for numerous reasons. it is something that is never planned. i went down this road once. i was in a bad state in my life and a friend gave me the shoulder that i needed and as we got closer, our feelings began to grow stronger for each other. i knew what i was missing in my situation and that was love and affection. sometimes you have no control. But, sometimes you do.
2007-10-15 08:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by peanutmunchkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz they like to exspriment discover and taste all the different flavours around
2007-10-15 08:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u its hard 2 stick 2 one when there r a lot of hot people around
2007-10-15 09:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by blackboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat lack morals. They have no understanding of the word "commitment."
2007-10-15 08:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they feel a desire to find something new, or they are just plain tired of the person they are currently with.
2007-10-15 08:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by beatlesgirl. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked myself that one over n over because one their with aren't giving them what they really want in a relationship. So they go and find someone who will:(
2007-10-15 08:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Miss.SourPatch! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship gone sour and they to stupid to end it. Marriage gone sour and they to stupid to spark it. Some people just like the thrill of it. Some people are just stupid.
2007-10-15 08:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause it makes them feel like a pimp. When really they are a chump.
2007-10-15 08:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋