2007-10-15 22:10:53 · 11 answers · asked by couchp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you should not try again and here is why:
1. He cheated on YOU.
2. He tried to make it about you "Hurting Him" by saying you spied on mime.
You hurt him by catching him not by spying on him.
Come on if he was not cheating he would not have been very upset, what pissed him off was you catching him.
2007-10-16 00:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're allowing him to make you feel guilty for spying?
Hello! If he wouldn't have been showing signs and acting suspicious, then you wouldn't have went spying.
Look, I know that you probably still love him. Six years is a chunk of life out of you....but it's not really worth it to go back. He's proven how much he values the relationship, already...He stepped outside of it and carried on with another woman.
Do you really want to take the chance of being put through that again? Not to mention that you'll never fully trust him. It doesn't sound like he's even regrets doing it. He's just upset that you "Invaded" his privacy and found out.
Move on and find someone better...Save yourself the heartache and energy.
2007-10-16 00:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missing too much information to give you a valid and fair response. Are you married? Were you married and aren't any longer? Why did he cheat on you? Were you attentive to his needs at home, did you push him away, or is he basically a jerk? Were you spying before you discovered him cheating on you, or after? Did you have reason to believe he was cheating on you, or was your spying on him the cause?
So many questions to establish a baseline to work-from, and so very little information actually given.
Help us by fleshing-out a few more details of what has happened, and is currently happening, please.
Dave
2007-10-15 22:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by doozers2_39 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think hurting because someone cheated on you is way worse than finding out someone has spyed on you... once a cheat always cheat in my book but its up to you how much he can be trusted and if he really is going to earn your trust....
2007-10-15 22:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think of 6 is a super age to commence, exceptionally while he's showing the pastime. the training are probable weekly and he can do his quarter-hour an afternoon prepare (or greater if he's inspired). i began out at age 6 devoid of the pastime and persisted into highschool and am nevertheless involved musically.
2016-10-07 00:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you after 6 years would you really want to marry the creep at some point...i think he probably thought after 6 years that it was going nowhere, and thought the grass was greener on the other side, he'll be back, if you have any sense tell him to get lost, plenty more people who wont cheat on you!! :-)
2007-10-15 22:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by tobyjug472002 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are built on mutual trust and belief.The moment you doubt and start spying,the relationship ends.
2007-10-15 22:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you would have spyed if he wasn't cheating
depends on the both of your weants and expectations for the future.
2007-10-15 22:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you like being a door matt? Cut this fool loose and move on. He is a control freek and you are being controlled. Tell his to kiss your buttocks and move on.
2007-10-15 22:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you hurt him by spying on him....cos he cheated on you.....wow....bless his poor cotton socks!
2007-10-15 22:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋