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The person who don't luv u, & u don't want to be her friend then what to do ???

2007-10-15 21:17:38 · 1 answers · asked by Dharam 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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We have an IGNORANT view of how friendships and love works. We really do, its stems from the fact that we don't understand love, which is sad. See the fact is if you feel ANYTHING for ANYTHING, its because you love it, its that fundemental. What we confuse as love is actually a cascade of feelings and associations, that comes about FROM the already exsisting love. It isn't love by itself, its a product of it. But I digress, the best way to see it is like this. Love is just an emotion whose job it is, IS to make you FEEL. THis feelings can be infinit in scoop and is were the real delima of love comes form. The fact is friendship takes time, love affairs just take a shallow attraction, which is why more the 50% of marriages end in divorce, they forgo the love of friendship for the love of well, lust and pride. This eventually catches up with them and the reality destories the relaitonship, namly that their in love with a stranger, and you can't make friends with a stranger..... because of this small fundemental fact, at the center of every deep, meaningful relationship, is a friendship. Which we also have an ignorant view of what friendship is, but I digress again....

2007-10-18 07:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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