my girlfriend doent give me much time anymore and i really cant ask her y she is doing this.. coz once i did she got enoyed and said i am busy with my new course so dont bother me much.she seems to be less intersted in me these days. i want to know what should i do so that she is intersted in me again as before and starts giving me time and love as before and main problem is we talk very less and we havent met for the past 2 months.
2007-10-15 20:41:36 · 18 answers · asked by lostworld555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry this makes no sense, what is coz?
2007-10-15 20:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Terry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite common. Couples get bored. It isn't always both parties who are bored.
If you don't want to give up, i suggest you start to spruce things up on your part. Do things like sending her flowers or at the very least, loving text messages! But you don't want to go OVER board and smother her. You could send her flowers, sure.. but you don't want to freak her out.
You could go for the totally opposite angle and play 'hard to get'.. but be careful(don't totally snob her).
You could even start talking to other girls- if you and her use myspace or bebo, start talking to girls on there.. don't lead them on or anything because that's selfish just chat. If she's any kind of girlfriend she'll be reading your "comments" and will probably feel jealous- thus meaning the attention is back on!
;D
(or she may be cheating- in which case she's a b***h and not worth the hardship)
2007-10-15 20:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by smehdjgla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm........she could be distancing herself from you or she is busy but i don't believe in being busy you can make some time if you really wanted too 5-10 minutes at The most won't hurt. if she really wants the relationship to work she'll put more effort into it. there isn't anything you can do but ask her what she is looking for in the relationship and where does she see it going if she can't give a straight answer then she isn't the one.
2007-10-15 20:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can i say is that your on the wrong relationship,it is clear based on what you have said that it is " A one sided love affair". Do you want to pay attention and give your love to someone who doesn't deserve it. Don't waste your time to person who doesn't respect your true feelings. You should love yourself , and by this you should not let anyone hurt you.Just a simple advice.Move on there so many things ahead of you.
2007-10-15 23:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out from under that brick wall that is falling on you. You are getting dumped. She is not trying to hurt you, but she wants out and away from your former relationship. Hold your head up, and don't give her any more chances to dis you. Hang on to your pride and stop thinking you can do something to change this .
2007-10-15 20:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by older is wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there you go, that is your problem. Lack of communication, if there is not communication their are going to be doubts and questions and when that starts coming into play trust is going to be either broken, questioned. So remember that communication is VERY but VERY important...so as soon you start talking (both to each other) problem should be solved.
2007-10-15 20:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up with her. I know it sounds unimaginable, but if she's been ignoring you for that long, what's the point of keeping the relationship? You haven't seen her in two months, that should tell you something.
Good luck!!!
2007-10-15 20:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Stephy B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear just ask her to be very frank to you, coz if tomorrow you are tempted by anozer girl it'll b her fault.and tell her that if she has somebody else just b frank to you coz youy are suffering a lot coz of her./........... dont worry every thing will be fine.... take care bye
2007-10-15 20:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it's over.If she loved you she would make time for you even 5 minutes of her time is no harm right?
2007-10-15 21:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Ashanti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't seen her in 2 months (and not by your choice), she may be trying to tell you something...and its not good...Move on and find someone else...because it sounds like she has...
2007-10-15 20:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to depress you,but i think its time for you to move on and get over her-sounds like shes lost interest in your relationship.theres many fish in the sea my friend,
2007-10-15 20:46:29 · answer #11 · answered by dajram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋