Some one Please help me with this...... it is soooooo stressing me out...
i have two daughters ok. My oldest 16. lives with her daddy (i agreed to this she wannted too) and my 8 year old lives with me..
ok.. She (8 year old) goes to her daddys on weekends.. Well she was melosted by her fathers girlfriends son(13) and before that happend he ejackulated off in front of my other daughter as well...
iam trying to get full custody of my 16 year old.(she still dont want to live with me..) dont want to leave daddy alone...(big deal) but.. her father wouldnt even remove that boy from his home aftere what he did... So iam tryin to get custody of my oldest daughter against her will.. also tryin to prove her dad unfit over all this .. Yes he was home when this took place..Quess what he even watched it happend for a hour before he went in the liveing room and told boy get off my daughter... His excuse was........ the boy had his back faceing him and couldnt really see what he was doing to her..
2007-10-15 17:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by mary c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do have custody now of my 8 year old daughter.. and now iam tryin to get my oldest even though it will be against her will... and try her dad for UNFIT!!! i also have proof of photos my 16 year old was sending nude pictures of her self over the internet while under his care in his home to a 26 year old.. and his respones ya he was upset but he says i cant watch her 24/7... Is this all enough to get my oldest daughter... is the question iam askin???? oh ya it took me to fill pappers at the court house for him to remove boy from his home cause he no's iam tryin for full custody.. will this hurt my chance?? (gettin her)
2007-10-15 17:42:52 · update #1
The sixteen year old will not come back to you and I don't think that it would be a good idea for you to try and force her, because she's sixteen the courts allow her to decide where she wants to live, it's that simple. I'm sure that you can get the boy who molested your daughter into trouble, but as for your daughter sending nude pics, I doubt you would be able to stop your daughter, sorry..what you can do is get the male retrieving these pictures arrested and sent to jail. Your best bet would be to talk to your 16 year old daughter about it and maybe both of you can compromise on the situation, but other then that..you won't be able to get custody.
Make sure that punk gets put in jail where he belongs...13 years old or not, he doesn't deserve to be at home getting away with it. You needed to report it to the police.
2007-10-15 17:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so with you on stressing over this ..Its not me and your ex has my blood boiling , I dont know all the details but from the sound of it its not going to be too hard to prove he is unfit!!!
And as far as your daughters feeligs about everything, you are the parent for a reason and the law stands clear on giving you rights to do the right thing for their well fare So you go right ahead and pull your babies home where they willl both be safe and sound , and the will all understand later that it was all in the best intrest of the child!!
Honey Im going to bed right now and I will be saying an extra special prayed for you .. Good luck and just follow your heart ,a mothers heart is always filled with the power , the love and the knowledge to protect you children. Plus Im very sure you will have tons of surport from upstairs!!!
Much Love and Laughter to you
Good Luck
2007-10-15 17:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by misque77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to get custody of your 16 year old, but she is old enough to determine which parent she goes to live with.
You can keep the 8 year old away from his house altogether by specifying "court supervised visitation" only, citing this whole mess. This will either force the daddy to straighten up or will simply put distance between him and his younger daughter... either is fine.
2007-10-15 17:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's your question? Should you be trying to get full custody of both children, and have your ex husband's visitation rights revoked? ABSOLUTELY!!! I cannot believe a FATHER would allow anyone to TOUCH his daughter and not want to kill the person who hurt his daughter. I know my husband would kill anyone who hurt either of his children, and if someone molested one of our children, I don't even want to think what my husband would do to them.
2007-10-15 17:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋