I work with some people who are very stressed and just basically not very happy I dont think. They are sometimes just mean and impersonal. Dealing with them can be the most impossible nightmare.
Lately, I have been faking being the kindest, sweetest person you have ever met and they are happier around me it seems.
Do you think I am on to something?
2007-10-15 16:57:28 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats usually the easiest way to deal with people like that.
In general, people respond like with like.
And yes i have. It is not easy for me, i have a temper... But my friend has a friend who has some qualities you mentioned. So to avoid a conflict with either of these people i just acted kind around the meaner girl. Worked, although my friend knew it was fake.
2007-10-15 17:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by hj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its much easier being nice than it is to be mean. Some people just need to be reminded that every things not bad sounds like you are what reminds them way to go
2007-10-16 00:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by christi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋