I won't get into all the details....but met this guy from online. First meeting was great...second meeting was horrible and he tried some kinky stuff w/ me and then said "I'm not feeling this"....I left blah blah blah....I felt totally disprespected...he said "maybe it's cause I'm sick"...Anyway, I thought by him telling me he was not feeling it he'd leave me be cause he totally freaked me out when he bit me so hard it almost drew blood, spanked me, pulled my hair and degraded me...I felt deceived by him.
Anyway, since this incident he has literally IMd me all week. As soon as I get online he'll within 20 minutes or so say "howdy or whatever"....Friday he even asked what I was doing for the weekend...I basically just ignored him...Saturday he gets online all night to check in w/ me it seems...asking me if I'm drunk and letting me know he was (like wtf?)...Sunday no contact and Today he contacted once to ask me "how my weekend was."
For a guy "not feeling" it, seems pretty weird beh.
2007-10-15 17:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyway, today when he asked me if I had a good weekend I decided to respond. I said "yes it was excellent and I met somebody and we had an amazing time together and I can't wait to see him again."...something like that. In hopes that he'll leave me alone.
His reply was "Good for you, hehe!"
DO YOU THINK HE'LL FORGET ABOUT ME NOW AND MOVE ON TO HIS NEXT VICTIM? I WANT HIM OUTTA MY LIFE, HE GIVES ME BAD VIBES. What he did to me that night at his house was creepy and assaultive? Do you think by me telling him I'm interested in another guy he'll go away?
Thanks!
2007-10-15 17:37:22 · update #1
that should get him to back off a little bit but if you're gonna try and fool him you're going to need to keep your story straight when it comes to him. if he doesn't back off, you should probably call the cops because he could become a stalker type guy.
2007-10-15 17:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Werewolfbynight™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very carefull. Sounds sort of like a nut. If you don't want to be around him anymore, just tell him. Do not assume that he will get the picture. You are going to have to come right out and tell him NO MORE... I am not one of those guys, but I have seen my share of them. Good Luck.
2007-10-15 17:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by morgan74017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this happened to you. Just ignore him completely. Let it go, but learn from it. If you run into him when you are out, walk away. If he follows you get help (police). You can't be too careful these days.
2007-10-15 17:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by BrAnDon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you just make yourself invisable to him on the IM. Then if he finds you again and keeps bothering you tell him that he stops or you will call the police. If that doesn't work, Call the police
2007-10-15 17:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Phil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEST way to get rid of him is DO NOT RESPOND at all when he IM's or sends e-mail. Sooner or later, he will get the message that you are no longer interested.
2007-10-15 17:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block out his IM's.
2007-10-15 17:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by scott9292003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh he should
for your sake i hope he does
wut an idiot, how is he gonna bite u hard?
2007-10-15 17:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by jmncvx7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋