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He got his mate to test me to make sure im not cheating on him.
We argue alot and I dont think I can deal with it.
He lies to me and I belive him but find out from his mates.
He asked me to marry him but I think hes moving abit too fast.
But he tells me he loves me all the time and I still think I love him. But something tells me it wont work again.
2007-10-15 23:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by pussicus911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You argue a lot,
he LIES to you,
he wants to marry you but you are UNSURE???
and to cap it all he thinks you are cheating.
Honey, ditch this loser ASAFP. Who the hell does he think he's kidding? How do you know he's not lying when he says he loves you?
He is immature, he has a insecurity complex and doesn't deserve a lady like yourself. Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.
2007-10-15 23:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Robin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does love you, yes. But it also sounds like he is quite insecure with himself, and is worried that you will get someone better. That is why he tested you. As for the lies and arguments, probably once again, stem from his insecurity. Seems like he needs to sort himself out, before you two can make things work. His actions are incongruent with his feelings at times, and that could he is not secure in himself. You just need to have a think whether he is the one for you or not. If you have doubts, use this time apart to explore yourself.
2007-10-16 00:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by dev2c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2get lost... if he's cheating on you now move on 4get about him as i always say if he cheats once then he'll cheat again an i'm always right. an 1st of all he doesnt trust you because he asked his mate to test you. and d key to a gud relationship is trust. f**k him u leave him be go find a new fella that will treat u right. cause i'd say if u cheated on him. wud he take u bck??? i wudn't think so. he might say he loves you but that doesnt mean that he means it if he really loves you then y is he cheating on u?? ask urself tat question?
well gud luck watever u do... x x
2007-10-18 02:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by rah x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't enter a marriage on lies and cheat and anger cos that is a recipe for a disaster, if you still love enough to stick by him then fine.
But I think marriage is abit too far advance you need to settle all your disagreements first before anything.
If he thinks your cheating on him and your not you need to tell him that you are not cheating on him, and you want him to trust you more before you even think of entering a marriage, maybe he is insecure and he thinks your cheating on him when your not.
2007-10-15 23:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, if you do decide to take him back, make sure it's after a while so he knows what it feels like to be without you. Hopefully that will cure him of his lies. While you're apart, take time and decide what you want from the rerlationship.
2007-10-15 23:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give eachother a break for now to find out what you really want, and one day break from eachother is not enough to find out if you really want to be with him through all the lies.
Maybe give it 4-7 days see how you both feel about eachother after that.
2007-10-15 23:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi well to be honest you should follow your heart and if you know that taking him back isent going to work out then you need to move on, take care, and make your decision wiseley :O)
p.s if need to chat you can always give me an email? :O)
2007-10-15 23:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. Guys will tell you anything. If he is lying and testing you, he is worthless. Sounds like you are asking for trouble if you stay with him.
2007-10-15 23:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would get together but you to have alot of talking to do about trusting each other and why you both feel this. talk to him about it all everything dont hide it. and im sure he will tell u everything.
2007-10-15 23:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by imhiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you stressing so much over it? If it doesnt feel right, get over it & move on. Lifes too short.
2007-10-15 23:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Scorps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋