why would a woman, 24 am 26, your dating say she likes your company company wants you to only kiss her and no-one else and then tell you she wants to take it slow and not rush into a relationship because she had a bad experience with an ex and that she fancies someone at work but knows nothing will happen there cause he is going out with someone and after all this text you like everything is o.k and still want to date you ?
like why say she fancies someone else and expect you not to be pissed of ? what does that mean saying that? and it was said to me on my birthday to boot
and does it sound like she likes me or should i dump her, i like her but wont be a fool, what should i do ?
2007-10-15 23:45:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey..bro....hav 2 thank u.....4 da answr 2 ma question...
but Im nt sure if I hav the answr 2 your question...
ne way..I wish u luck...hope u c right 4m wrong..n get da girl of your dreams....
aite...
cheers bro..
2007-10-16 17:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by OshB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but you need to get rid!! If she cared for you at all, she wouldn't even tell you that she fancied someone else just purley out of respect for you. If she had a bad experience with an ex, why is she now chasing after two guys? It seems like her bad experience may have been the ex saw what she was like and dumped her! It seems like she's just giving you the run around, and expects you to be her little puppy dog who's there for her whatever- regardless of how she treats you!! Get rid, and do better!!
Happy Birthday btw -for whenever it is/was!!
2007-10-15 23:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a males view, no. Your "friend" is just jealous. What he said can be interpreted in many ways. As long as you and him are happy then it is ok. There is always that submissive person in the relationship. Males more than females. From the sound of your boyfriend though I would watch for signs of cheating. Not saying he is, but psychologically he might get it into his mindset, since you can be put off as his *****. As you stated. I do however recommend that you rebel a bit to keep the relationship lively. Not as in go party an get drunk, but have fun with him.
2016-03-12 23:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-03 17:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Diena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump her ...whats there to lose ... after all she had put it to your face saying ... she is fancing someone at work and to add more injury...she says this on your precious day ...she is a little demon to have done that to you ...on your Birthday ...
i think even if you asked her to choose before you take serious action ... she will say ..oh ..dont dump me i love you and yet the spears are pointing rite to you ready to shoot....she will pretend and make you believe you are the only one ..forgetting she told you that she likes this umbrella guy at the office , so i think if you dont want the spears to strike you , better take action to dump her find one who will praise you more and admire you at all times .And not some girl when she is at work she is thinking of BObby ........
and later in the nite she pretends its you she is loving !!
NO WAY NO !!
End it with a Passionate,long- kiss , so she wont stop thinking about you and what she hoped didnt have to end ... its like you have intoxicated her ....
see if she will mean it this time if she came crawling .... asking you back ....
i think sometimes we women dont realize when a guy is there for real,but only want to hunt for guys who dont even know our first names , but remembers our last name coz maybe he only remembers u belong to the Edmonds ......rite !!
2007-10-16 00:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds a bit confused. the best thing to do is talk to her, but dont get angry. becuase she has been in a bad relationship then you being forcefull will only make things worse. take you time as well and show her that you are really inetested and before you know it she will realise how much you like her.
2007-10-15 23:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, and wants to string you along until she sees if things will work out with the guy at work. If you want to date her casually, that's fine, but play the field, and don't get serious about her........
2007-10-16 02:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that when she grows up and quits playing games to give you a call. She sounds extremely immature for that age.
2007-10-15 23:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This girl is using you, my friend. She is keeping you on a string, for whatever reason, while she connives to be with the person she "fancies". Look elsewhere.
2007-10-15 23:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want to be with someone who's your number one fan and friend. at the moment you're her plan b.
2007-10-16 00:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋