We are not physical and just enjoying each others company. He also says that he is not happy and his marriage is like a time bomb, the only reason he is there is for his kid and he does not see himself staying in that marriage.
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2007-10-15 22:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by Kathy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's wrong. It's because of people like you that married men can have their cake and eat it too. Why are you letting them have this advantage over us? Leave him ALONE!
2007-10-15 22:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I agree with answerer No.4 though.. It's not wrong going out with a married man if you regard him as a friend. But if you are in love with him, then it's a different situation. It's best not to play with fire, you dun wanna end being hurt. Put yourself, in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if your husband is going out with another woman. In your case, this is where sacrifice comes in. If you really love him. then sacrifice your love for him. Don't break up his family just because you love him. Marriage is not just based on love. Its more complicated than you think. And to break that up, it's sad. I mean, no children would like to be brought up in a broken home. I admire his courage though for thinking greatly about his child. That shows that he is kinda responsible. So if you really love him, what you should do, is to advise him to reconcile with his wife. I know it's difficult, but hey, at least you are doing the right thing.
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Cheers!
2007-10-16 05:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
report what?
as for your question: No it is not ok. I don't care what story he is giving you, 95% of the time it is just some bull story to get into your pants. How do you know if he is even telling the truth. His wife might find his story to be news to her. If he really wants you then he can get a divorce and then date you. In any case, he must not respect you very much if he wants you to enjoin in this behavior. sorry honey but messing around with married men (or women) only leads to heartbreak all around.
2007-10-16 05:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong....Perhaps he's telling the truth.Some marriage may looked successful and happy,but on the other hand,they aren't....If he's really happy about it,i don't think he even dare to talk and meet up with you....It's only 'you' can tell if he's a real sincere...If he stay's with you for years,than he must be,if he left you 3 month's later after getting what usually guy's wants for a woman,than...He's not sincere to you and just played you on...I don't blame you 4 being In love with him...It's normal to fall in love.But just be cautious not to totally give your full heart and trust on him,till the right time comes and you feel that he deserves it....
2007-10-16 06:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by hey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if that's what your heart feels and he feels the same way, then who's stopping you? He should divorce, soon though, so no feelings get hurt in his family. The child will feel sad, but love is blind, and he will soon realize that his parents are not happy together.
If that is what your partner is feeling and what you are then it's only best to spend your time with somebody you â¥! Time is precious, don't let it waste away!
Oh and for those who gave me a thumbs down....
my dad was married when he met my mom, and 12 years later...living HAPPILY EVER AFTER!
2007-10-16 05:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well cheating isn't always phsyical it's also emotional, and that can be stronger than physical sometimes. if u enjoy each other companies and u really wanna be together then he should tell his wife and break things off with her. cos as innocent as it might be other ppl will jus view u as a homewrecker. do the right thing and do things the right way.
2007-10-16 05:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with being the "other person". I am that more often than not, but you have to be honest with yourself. He is playing her and could just as easily be playing you. Keep that in mind. His story is only half the story and he only has to tell you what he wants you to hear.
2007-10-16 05:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by dstalker34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he is playing with his wife today tomorrow who knows when you have a child he may have some one else.just ask him to divorce,you'll marry him if he accepts its good if not just 4get him.you cannot build your nest by breaking someone else's nest.instead of loving and going out with him.why dont you try to make him understand to go back to his wife..........that would be better instead of being the third person between them and making an innocent lose his dad,u'll get too many persons curse.i suggest not to be the reason of his broken house.just think logically.
2007-10-16 05:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by lonely girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe it is wrong. Even an emotional/social connection is an affair. If you are attracted to one another and see a future together wait until the divorce is final. Consider how you would feel in the wife's position and please think of of his child too.
2007-10-16 05:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely wrong. He is simply using u as a pillow to cry on, plain and frank.
Don't be the reason his marriage failed, (if it is already in trouble that is!)
2007-10-16 05:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Half of all marriages don't make it. I think divorce is a good thing. No reason to stay miserable if it doesn't work.
2007-10-16 05:43:26 · answer #11 · answered by lulabellalu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋