please help me understand what hes doing, beacuse im heartbroken and confused...?

Question

We met 2 months ago and ever since then we have talked nonstop. Hes in his first year of college and im still a junior in h.s. well...a couple of nights ago we were talking and we had a really deep conversation. he told me that im his perfect girl and he thinks about me all the time BUT beacuse of our illegal age difference we dont date...and where he is he is looking for "someone". he wants to meet someone speacal.
does he even really like me?
-he talks to me all the time, always trying to get my attention
-makes trips down here just to see me (hes waiting til marrige so i know hes not looking for sex)
-tells me he likes me/misses me
is it at all possible to have feelings for me but still be open for another relationship?
my bff told me that he is *key word* "trying" to find someone (no luck) cuz he does really like me but is trying to hold back cuz of everything going against us...do u think that could be it?
whats going on with this boy?

Answer 1

Could be, been my experience that as we get older (I'm 26) you youngins look better and better, mostly because of the "trainable" factor. You not what one would call "damaged goods" which is a constant problem with ladies over 21. So its possible he is serious here, espacially since NO SEX (if there isn't sex going on thats a BIG indicator that he is serious) is envovled. But trust your instincts here, take it slow, and enjoy the attention. If you get the feeling your lossing him, then really chances are you are, but if you feel it steadly growing well good things can happen!

Answer 2

tell him you like to get decrease lower back together that your extremely unhappy and bypass over him. If that would not paintings basically attempt to get him to start spending time with you lower back so he will start to desire to be with you lower back and get a splash greater advantageous mushy thinking that your there for him and not going everywhere.