when a girl i really dont know well but love to death says "aww your so cute" im 18 is it a good sign or what. she didnt actually say it to me she wrote in my yearbook. she has flirted beforewith me. she doesnt talk to me she isnt shy. she always seems nervous around me like straighting clothes/hair
i have herd from people she is a party girl and "mischievous" with guys does this effect it. I dont really believe any of it b/c she seems incocent. I dont really know her well but she has been pretty flirty with me and she seems shy around me
2007-10-18 11:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by khjkhjf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You could be just hearing idol gossip or "locker room talk". Ask her out if you want and find out for yourself. If she's a party girl, you'll know soon enough and you can end it. She may just be a flirt and she may be trying to get your attention and a date with you. Sorry, but you can't possibly "love" her if you don't know her. You may love the way she dresses or looks, but the only way to love her is to get to know her. A word of caution, your buddies may be trying to set you up. Don't let that stop you, just be aware so you can avoid any pit-falls.
2007-10-18 11:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever go with what other people say. That could have some truth, but it could also be jealous gossip. If she is flirty with you, then yes... she is interested. You need to show her you are interested by being flirty back. Talk to her!! Just ask, " So what's happening for you this weekend?" You're not exactly asking her out, but if she says " Nothing", then you might want to make a move and suggest a movie. You need to find a way to let her know you would like to see a movie with her. If you can't just step up and ask her, then see if a friend can run interference and see if she would be interested.
2007-10-18 18:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS make your own judgements...ever play the game "telephone"? same idea here..by the time it reaches you the story might be completely distorted..just judge for yourslef..believe me....you even may react to her differently than others! and people may say bad stuff about her ebcause they might be jealous etc..just like i said..no better experience than your own...but do stay on gaurd..keep in mind what the people said so you won't get hurt..but don
t be blinded by it, keep an open mind
2007-10-18 18:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her dont pay attention to what other people think or say about her- get to know her for yourself and form your own opinion of her- people will say all kinds of mean and rude things and for different reasons. Find out for yourself. Good luck
2007-10-18 18:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...lets see...just because people say she is a party girl doesent mean its true. i think you should get to know her better and find out yourself. ask her to go to the movies with you or invite her to lunch. if you like her go ahead and make your move. its worth a try isent it?
2007-10-18 18:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be interested. If you like her, you should form your own opinion of her and not be affected by what other people say.
2007-10-18 18:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. you dont really know her yet! sure spend time with her if she likes you! find out about her and if shes some slut or something then say bye-bye!
2007-10-18 18:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't ya kida a little spy on her see what she does normally and mabey even ask her friends.
2007-10-18 18:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by cutie girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋