I feel like im too much of a good girl
im 20 and still a virgin!! sometimes im proud other times im not. i do want to have really bad but i cant just to do it i want it to be special and meaningful ya know. there was this guy who i have histlry with and i fell extremely hard for but he didnt want a relationship he just wanted to have fun. i dont know what signal i give off to guys to make them just want to have with me!! lol But i really wanted to be with him lol i even told him that i wanted him to be my first, and we were going to but then he told me he cares about me so we are just friends, i dont know what i did wrong there!! Any other dude would have jumped at it.Did i come on too strong?? Maybe he thought i was just not worth it all. He's 18 and he's alot more experienced then me, so i would think that he would jump at it. there was this one guy all he wanted to do was be my first he was always wanting to hang out. not this guy, i dont know what i did???
2007-10-18 11:36:05 · 3 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he deserves alot better than a skank or a girl who 's going to cheat on him like his ex.
2007-10-18 11:37:21 · update #1
I think its better if you just date a guy and then become boyfriend and girlfriend because this guys that your talking to just wants to have fun pretty much just using you! So stick with a guy who does want to be with you and that you love....it would be and feel much better to you because your at least giving it up to the person you love.
2007-10-18 11:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey be patient.
You are only 20 for crying out loud.Once you lose it it is GONE.
You will send the message that you can be used like a sex toy and flushed like used toilet paper if you give in and SO many guys get that image from SO many girls , that some guys treat ALL girls like that even though they arent like that.
Try church, the united pentecostals are great.
2007-10-18 18:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it. if the tables were turned y would u turn him down? to me it seems that he has a lot of respect 4 u and he doesnt want u to waste urself. and girl, im 23 and still a virgin so its no thang! i beg u... pleez wait! wait until there is no question. it will be totally worth it. and if u want, u can IM me and we can keep in touch as sister virgins...ok that sounded totally gay and wierd but my intentions are good lololol! laters!
2007-10-18 18:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋