Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

I have been meeting many nice girls lately but none of them spark my interest. Usually because they are reserved or they are just not that type of girl. I'm not looking for someone just to "do it" with or someone to have a long term relationship with. I just want to meet a girl who is really comfortable with her sexuallity and isn't affraid to show it.
We all have sexual fantacies, and I want someone who is not affraid to tell me what they like or want.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I want a girl who will take charge and rough me up a lil bit lol.

Where are they!!!??

2007-10-18 09:52:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have separate finances. I take care of the rent, car insurance/maint, and groceries. She is supposed to take care of the utilities, but I end up paying them. What should I do?

2007-10-18 09:50:46 · 23 answers · asked by Wrong Answer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

of course guys love to see their girl in sexy underwear and bras. I have never really cared about being sexy. I'm a very pretty girl( as i have been told) and i'm not fat or anything. I decided that it was about time that I TRY being sexy so i went to VS and bought a couple sexy bras with underwear to mach, the lacy kind. I want to know why i'm feeling so embarrassed when I think of wearing it for him, what's wrong with me? This has actually bothered me for quite some time, I wish I wanted to be sexy but I feel so embarrassed... :*(

2007-10-18 09:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by underwaterer1 2 in Singles & Dating

ok for people who hav already answered question's from me b4 you know i have bf probs. Ok here's the deal my bf and i are broken up (so he's not really my bf anymor) any way im dating my friend john to make my ex jelous but there's been no response. I know he still likes me cause he flirts w/ me all the time but i try to ignore him. Also his friends say it's obvisis that he still like me. any help?

2007-10-18 09:48:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 09:47:57 · 14 answers · asked by Kaya M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What were your reasons for or against marrying the person you chose? and how long has your marriage lasted?

Are there some major issues that you've overcome? did some issue you thought you could overcome end your marriage?

Just curious!

2007-10-18 09:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by blinker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 09:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by Michael O 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 09:42:27 · 11 answers · asked by me87 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been together for 6 months with my girl and things aren't the same. Any thoughts?

2007-10-18 09:40:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hmmmmmmmmmmmm

2007-10-18 09:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we must know, do you even like quiet girls at all or do all of you only want to date the loud, cheerleader types?

2007-10-18 09:39:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last a week I had a problem with one of my wife's friends who kept on refering me to her husband as a reference on how a husband should be and at the same time she had a crush on me and my wife knew it. However things between me and my wife are too rocky, unable to fix things, living like roomates until our divorce is finalised. However her friend ran away from her abusive husband and she has been staying with us. Yesterday I came home earlier because I had to complete my school assignment. I came home hoping that nobody was at home and surprisingly she called off yesterday and was laying half naked on the couch, not ashamed that I was here. Today I she called of and went to visit her sister and come back home and I was here doing my project, now she is laying half naked on the couch wants me to watch tv with her. What won't I do?I can't concentrate what I am doing now and its very tempting especially knowing that I havent had sex for almost five months now.

2007-10-18 09:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 09:38:11 · 5 answers · asked by gary 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to be free and marriage and kids takes your freedom from you so screw that I am a very adventurous person and dont let anything or anyone hold me done. I do what ever the hell I want when ever I want.
Alright so for those of you that are married why?????? I dont get it, do you do it cuz you actually love that person or you think society wants you to do this. Me I only love myself and I am my own person, I dont care what society wants me to do. I dont conform to nothing. Or is it that you get lonely and need someone. Maybe all of these things which dont pertain to me so thats probably why I dont get it.. I love my freedom and will never give it up. I am an island and need no one and dont get lonely, will never change my mind on this topic. Yes people change and so do I, but I will never want to be married or have kids ever. So for everyone who thinks its just a phase and you were like me at my age, nope thats not it its who I am and this decision is locked in so enough of th

2007-10-18 09:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

married now for 7 years i am only 29 my wife is 27 we only have sex once a week what should we do

2007-10-18 09:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by corey navarre 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a friends wedding a few days ago and she put all the presents in the dining room and her toddler son got into them and opened a bunch of them and tossed the paper all around so she has no idea what card goes to which present. she doesnt want to write a standard "thank you for the coming" she really wanted to personalize them all (ex: dear mike and jessica thank you for coming to the wedding and for sharing in our special day with us. the espresso machine will definitly come in handy this winter..." etc) she wants each person to know that she likes the gift they brought but now she doesnt know what gift goes to what card and its all a mess..should she suck it up and send standard thank you cards or would it be totally tacky to call and explain that her son got up from his nap and made a bit of a mess and ask who gave what. she isnt returning anything she just wants to know who sent what..what should we do?

2007-10-18 09:35:04 · 19 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Weddings

despite the fact that I work overseas just now and he lives in my home town (we met in the country i now work in through a mutual friend) and have stayed in touch and met up once when I was home. We get on really well and there mad chemistry - , I would like to get together whenI return home for good, how should I play it over the next couple of months until that time?
we are both quite free spirited so neither of us thinks the other is up for a relationship. I dont want to scare him away, how should I phrase text messages I send him?

2007-10-18 09:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by lola1981 1 in Singles & Dating

I think you know after what... I don't for some reason, and I thought most women were supposed to like that??? I love to cuddle with my kitties and my little one, but when it comes to my intimate partner, I am so "done" when I'm done and could care less about being "close" after.... I'd just as soon they disappear off the face of the earth to be honest... hehehe.. I've even been criticized for this.... Do you think it's not normal or simply a normal variation??? Thanks...

2007-10-18 09:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by Mercedes 5 in Singles & Dating

What age did you first have sex?

2007-10-18 09:31:53 · 1 answers · asked by Vivian 3 in Singles & Dating

everyone told me when i turned 16.. "its the best year of your life.." i turned 17 about a month ago and im really hoping its better than 16 haha im just wondering WHEN WAS YOUR FAVORITE AGE?

2007-10-18 09:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

after we broke up we decided to be friend we live and work near each other so we see other quite often
lately i havent been seeing her cuz of the change in my schedule

for a good amount of time when we will see each other we will be happy to see each other
she will have a smile on her face and always ask me to come over to chi chat, so on our b day ( we have the same b day) she call me to wish me happy b day and we chi chatted i said a joke and she got mad at me for it she told me that i was rude and i told her to relax we ended the conversation ok
but we really havent spoken to each other
i saw her soon after, we chi chatted for awhile but not like before it felt different

so i saw her this morning, i said hello to her and she responded with a hello but wit no smile and some what like kinda ignore me
what up with her ? is she mad at me or bitter>?
whats going on here

2007-10-18 09:30:46 · 22 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i like a girl. she is in da same grade as me. we even have the same b-day. were friends. she already knows i like her bc my ex friend that goes out with her told her. i really need an answer. please.

2007-10-18 09:30:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend marry this guy for 3 years but he not the father of her 2 kids and they are now divorced

can she get child support from her ex husband even it not his kids but he has been supporting her two kids ? no they don't have the ex husband last name

2007-10-18 09:27:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

recently i've been hanging out with a really close guy friend of mine, and we both know that we like each other. we even hang out alone, sometimes at my house, sometimes at his, and we always sit (thisclose) The only thing is, i don't want to scare him off by kissing him, if he hasn't given off any obvious signs.
so guys, what are signs that you want to kiss a girl? or any tips for making it obvious (to him) would be helpful too.
thanks in advance!


p.s: we do watch movies, shows, and we play video games alot. side by side. so it's kind of the awkward situation of 'well, we're already this close.....' it's just the final move that i'm worried about.

2007-10-18 09:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by what'chewtalkinboutwillis? 1 in Singles & Dating

"My girlfriend contacted us, and she wants us to tell you your pecker is too small" They wanted me to buy this "Man Juice" that is supposed to add inches. I asked my girlfriend but she said she never contated anyone and she loves all of my 3 inches. I dont know if I should beleive her? What should I do?

2007-10-18 09:25:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey,

Im only in grade 8...and there are alot of "love couples" or "liking things" in my school. I have a goal, and its to go to Harvard, and I know I dont have the time to like someone or date. But I really want to try it out ( I dont like anyone right now though, because everyone is just so FUGLY and MEAN)
Theres a thousand of guys waiting to date me, but :

1) Im scared that my parents will get MAD
2) I dont have the time for dating
3) Dating is a waste of time

BUT:

1) I want to try it out
2) There are guys I can date
3) I think im old enough to date.

2007-10-18 09:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by SimplyAwesome 3 in Singles & Dating

....Love can heart too :( but it can also be addictive :)

2007-10-18 09:23:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, im rlly shy around girls and i can never talk to this girl i like about the fact that i like her... is it ok if i send a friend to tell her? or does it like have to be me? and also please provide tips on how to tell her i like you without screwing up majorly?

2007-10-18 09:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by Harsh 6 in Singles & Dating

Im a 24 year old male, in a relationship. We are getting married in a few weeks. I work 9 hours a day, commute 1 hour each way morning and night, and lately with the stress of the wedding stuff, and normal day to day events, have had no desire to have sex whatsoever.

This is very abnormal for me, as im usually a pretty horny guy, and i never would have imagined i would be the one to turn it down so often. Lately my fiancee has been very upset because she tries to initiate and i just feel like i would rather lay there and do nothing, im not feeling it right now.

In the past if the girl doesnt want to, we guys have to accept that and respect it. How come the same isnt being done to me? Even though i tell her its that im tired she thinks i think she is ugly or no longer interested, its not true. And she even hints that me not wanting to is making her feel bad about herself and i should do it because i love her.

I do love her but i dont want to until i feel right about it.. help?

2007-10-18 09:21:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... what do you think?

2007-10-18 09:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating