I like to be free and marriage and kids takes your freedom from you so screw that I am a very adventurous person and dont let anything or anyone hold me done. I do what ever the hell I want when ever I want.
Alright so for those of you that are married why?????? I dont get it, do you do it cuz you actually love that person or you think society wants you to do this. Me I only love myself and I am my own person, I dont care what society wants me to do. I dont conform to nothing. Or is it that you get lonely and need someone. Maybe all of these things which dont pertain to me so thats probably why I dont get it.. I love my freedom and will never give it up. I am an island and need no one and dont get lonely, will never change my mind on this topic. Yes people change and so do I, but I will never want to be married or have kids ever. So for everyone who thinks its just a phase and you were like me at my age, nope thats not it its who I am and this decision is locked in so enough of th
2007-10-18 09:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone. I plan on being alone, I will never be lonely. I am not like most people who need companionship and all that. Some might say that it is immature or weird to want to be alone its not, you just dont understand it and when people dont understand they start to question and say its not right.
2007-10-18 09:39:14 · update #1
I guess for some people but I am not a person that marrys or falls in love
2007-10-18 09:46:22 · update #2
I guess for some people but I am not a person that marrys or falls in love
2007-10-18 09:46:36 · update #3
haha wow so I should get married tolive longer haha I dont care
2007-10-18 09:48:35 · update #4
Sorry I dont need anyone why does everyone think that everyone needs people I know there are a lot of people out there who need no one and I am one of them. I dont and wont get lonely I am just not like that
2007-10-18 09:51:46 · update #5
Some people eventually change and feel the need to settle down and raise a family. Perhaps you will someday change also. If not, no big deal. At least you realize what you want and are not ashamed to admit it.
2007-10-18 09:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually enjoy being with one person. I'm not very social or adventurous - I've always been satisfied with a very small circle of friends and family. I like having a routine. Different strokes for different folks I guess. It's not so much that I get "lonely" (I do well when I'm alone), but it is simply that I enjoy the companionship of this one special person. Bottom line is I would rather be alone than being with someone whose companionship I don't enjoy.
2007-10-18 17:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the question and what is wrong? You don't want to get married or have children, then don't! If that keeps you happy for your whole life, then more power to you! The object in life is live and be happy however you have to do it! Just make sure you don't trick people into thinking there is a chance for more with you! Hopefully you will have a very happy life, but usually, not always people who choose to live their lives alone end up dieing sad and alone. This may or may not happen to you. I guess just make sure you make wonderful, lasting friendships along the way to ensure that you will have someone there when you end up needing someone! Enjoy your life and don't let anyone tell you how to live it!
2007-10-18 16:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by crazesillyme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your freedom is not gone when you are married!!
I am married and I can do what I want (with in reason)
We don't want children so that also makes a big difference.
I love having him around. We do what we want when we want. We have tons of fun.
You just have to find the right person.
I got married because I wanted to! Not because society wants me to. I waited a long time to get married again! I was happy being by myself. Like you said I wasn't alone..I have friends and co workers..It happens that I met this great guy and we fit. People do give us weired looks when we tell them that we don't have children and we don't want children..That is society talking there..Just because you are married you don't have to have kids..we are going against society.
You just need to do what makes you happy! Don't worry about what others say and do!
2007-10-18 17:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by sexxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truely in love with my husband.
If I never found a person I couldn't connect to, I would not get married.
If you feel that way about marriage, then you have never connected with anyone. You just said you love only yourself, so you are completely selfish and a spoiled brat.
You don't need to preach your hate of marriage here, go find some randomness to screw and move on to the next target in your sad and lonely life.
2007-10-18 17:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts Get Over It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? You again.
After all of these rants I still have to ask, why do you feel so compelled to come on here and go on about marriage and loss of freedom and all the rest about being an island and not needing anyone.
I'll repeat, if you are so firm in your convictions, why do you post this crap on a marriage post?
It seems to me that you are still wet behind the ears, aren't you still 19, and either cannot find a woman or have repressed homosexual tendencies. Either that or you are a troll who is fishing for some kind of response to report.
Which is it?
Who are you trying to convince?
2007-10-18 17:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you don't need anyone and I agree that some people don't. I believe that you should not get married, it obviously isn't an institution that you believe in and therefore shouldn't bother with it. However you don't have to knock it down, you can be of the opinion that it does suit some people and it can and does work for some people.
2007-10-18 16:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angela O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you REALLY enjoy being a lone..then why are you on Yahoo Q&A ranting? Seems you are wanting some attention....
2007-10-18 16:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married couples live longer.
2007-10-18 16:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by j r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, your outlook on marriage and children is about as good as your grammar and punctuation.
2007-10-18 17:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋