of course guys love to see their girl in sexy underwear and bras. I have never really cared about being sexy. I'm a very pretty girl( as i have been told) and i'm not fat or anything. I decided that it was about time that I TRY being sexy so i went to VS and bought a couple sexy bras with underwear to mach, the lacy kind. I want to know why i'm feeling so embarrassed when I think of wearing it for him, what's wrong with me? This has actually bothered me for quite some time, I wish I wanted to be sexy but I feel so embarrassed... :*(
2007-10-18 09:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by underwaterer1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bcoz you try it at the first time. While i think you need not change yourself if you are really pretty. I found some pretty girl at millionairematch.com attrating although they are no underwear.
2007-10-21 21:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Geogia Q 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Society has forced women to play too much emphasis on their bodies, so it's natural that you feel this embarrassed. But seriously - when it comes to sex, guys are really not paying that much attention to what you see as flaws. Just seeing you naked or scantily clad is enough to drive them crazy!
My man calls me sexy all the time, and let me say, I am no Angelina Jolie - not even close! But he obviously finds something appealing in me, and that boosts my confidence. I'll buy lacy underwear and let him "discover" it when I'm changing clothes or getting into the shower. He's surprised and tantalized by it all.
Start small. No need to slip on the lacy underthings and answer the door in them! Let him find them naturally - just wear them under your regular clothes on a night when you're confident there will be some action. Don't even think about any extra curves or whatever you think is wrong with you; he won't notice, trust me!
2007-10-18 17:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. If you had asked me. I would have told you to quit wearing underwear for a while and be naked more often around your guy....
2007-10-18 16:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, try all of it on, take some pics, take it off and take more pics, then send em to us and we will tell u if u should be embarrased or not
2007-10-18 16:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by crimsonclaw14 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you might feel embrassed but he'll like it trust me!
2007-10-18 16:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋