Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

What goes through your mind when your boyfriend tells you he is uncircumcised?

Do you think it is best to tell a girl or to just let her find out?

2007-10-18 09:16:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently (a month ago) was reunited with an old flame from my high school days. We hadnt seen each other in 8 years. Well he has been separted from his wife (she left him) since May of this year. Well just when he was starting the divorce process she realizes that she doesnt want a divorce and wants to get back together. In the short while that we have been back in touch I have developed feelings for him. Its like we never lost touch. But it seems like he might take her back. What should I do?

2007-10-18 09:15:23 · 20 answers · asked by KD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there was the prettiest girl in my class last year, and even though he was always looking at me and trying to sit net to me, i never really talked to her, well last friday i met her at a party and got her number (she came up to me). i couldn't call her to give her my numbre inside cuz i didnt have service, so i called her like 3 hours later and she was like "kindd of a late reaction", i dont know if that means anything, but anyways i called her on tuesday to do something on friday and she said she's busy the whole weekend because her friend from out of town is coming, and as soon as i called she said she was busy studying, so she couldn't talk, but she did say we should do something some weekend so what i want to know is do i still have a chance with this girl, and also when should i call her again?

2007-10-18 09:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

We are throwing petals at the ceremony but wanted a grand entrance. You know when the bridal party is announced. Any feed back will be helpful.

2007-10-18 09:12:18 · 52 answers · asked by hotcocoa07 2 in Weddings

I'm way to old for this to happen to me!!!!

One of my wife's oldest friends is staying with us, and she walked in on me masterbating... She was coming to get some towels from our room, and didn't know i was in there.

So mortifying.... It's even worse, b/c she got a look at my rather "small" tool. She seemed to chuckle and ran out in embarrassment.

She and my wife have been teasing me now for getting caught pleasing myself and for the the size of my tiny tool...

i'm mortified. should i just laugh it off or ask them to stop?

2007-10-18 09:11:53 · 33 answers · asked by Bill W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys say they can tell if a girl has had sex with sum1 b4 them. A friend of mine said da girl will b tighter if she has, I dont get it... but i wanna know is there truth 2 dat?

2007-10-18 09:05:55 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley W 2 in Singles & Dating

I was outside of my house and this girl called my son a lier and I told her not to call my son a lier. Then she went over to some people that lives behind us and told them what happen and the oldest boy came over here. He had my son to come and get me so, my son came and got me, he goes mom the boy that lives behind us what to talk to you so, I got up from the sofa when it was your dinner time walked to the back door and the boy told me that I needed to apologize to the girl for yelling at her. I told the boy that I didn't yell at her. I told him three or four time. Then he got up in my face and started yelling at me so, I yelled at him. His mom started yelling at me, I came flying down our back steps and I was trying to tell her what her sons was doing to my boys. They was hitting my boys and wrestling with my boys, she said"I don't what to hear what my boys was doing to your boys. I know I shouldn't have yelled at the boy but he shouldn't have got in my face.

2007-10-18 09:05:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like like you

2007-10-18 09:05:34 · 16 answers · asked by Harsh 6 in Singles & Dating

7th grade which is now. Ive been putting up with it for so long. i feel like i lost all of my confidence now. its just a feeling like they run my life. they try to start with me for no reason. i can be quiet and even try not to look at them yet they will still try to see if they can dig up something to talk about. like today. i try to ignore them i do. i never cry about it in front of them. maybe im even scared. one of then got into a argument with another girl over a ****** pen. she spazzed out and told some of the popular girls in higher grades about it. this even convinces me that i cant mess w/ them! the teacher is definetly NOhelp, he/she will only make things worse and when i tell my parents they want to coome up to the skool. ofcourse i wont allow that but then wat should i do. will i make things worse by having my "mommy and daddy" handle things 4 me?? Help.... p.s. i already feel hopeless i dont wanna feel worse by giving them another reason to hate me...

2007-10-18 09:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by riley 2 in Singles & Dating

- date a hot chick with big boobs, no ***
- date a hot chick with no boobs, nice ***

2007-10-18 09:03:47 · 1 answers · asked by Juggman 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years. He asked me out when he was an eighth grader and I was a freshman. Now Im a senior and hes a junior in high school. I'm big on waiting till marriage because I'm a Christian and so is he. But everyone always tells us that they can see us getting married. Me and bobby (my boyfriend) always talk about how we're going to get married some day. He never pressures me, he always says "I can wait when and if you're ready" It's the perfect relationship, but me and him both were taught that you're supposed to wait until marriage. We've been talking about sex lately, (and just for the record, the only thing that we do together is make out). I don't know what to think though. Obviously if Im not 100% sure than I shouldn't do it, but I dont know what Im supposed to think, I dont know.

HELP!

2007-10-18 09:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for six months now and i love him alot. I am 27 so i'm past all the games and so forth, so i'm taking this seriously. The thing is, lately i feel like there isn't enough hours in the day to get everything done. Together we got a puppy which he pretty much got for my birthday and she stays with me at my place and with the new puppy and all the things i do before work and after work, i stay busy and then i'm tired and i have to get ready for the next day to do it all over again. Not to mention my boyfriend works opposite hours than me. I work 8-5 and he works 2-10 at night. With all this, i feel stretched, soooooo we really haven't been "intimate" in about a week or so, he asked me if i had fallen out of love with him. i'm just not in the mood but how or what should i say to him?

2007-10-18 09:02:12 · 38 answers · asked by heidiann90202 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 6 years. only just married this year. we have one child. i am a stay home mom in school working for a degree to go back to work. he is a mechanic. i am miserable. he is miserable. he doesn't talk to me. he pretends like things are fine when theyre not. he expects me to forget about things that upset me (yes, he has told me this) he buys thousands of dollars worth of "stuff" behind my back, etc. he yells at me for no reason. and from what he tells me, i make him feel like he never does anything right, im always bitching, i'm never happy, etc. it takes two to tango, i know this, but i can't take the fighting anymore. it seems like all i ever think about anymore is a divorce, or leaving him. i don't know why we got married. but it seems like since we have, things have only gotten worse. i love this man and want things to work, but i just can't take it anymore. where do we go from here? suggestions to get our marriage back on track?

2007-10-18 09:00:46 · 21 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 08:59:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Or what is something you didn't know that you wish you had?
What are some things you should know in general?

Just a something I was thinking about.

2007-10-18 08:57:59 · 39 answers · asked by zmusicgal 1 in Weddings

...about RIGHT NOW!!??

I am really thinking about seeing my hubby in about an hour and tackling him full force then kissing him while I hold him down. Do you think he will get mad since it will be in the Hastings parking lot??

I have been thinking that ALLLLLL day and I can't wait until quitting time! I love him so very much! Just wanted to share.

Sandy :O))))))

2007-10-18 08:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since my husband told me I was ugly and I realized he is not who I thought he was, I've been unfaithful to my husband of 5 yrs. I have not cheated on him physically with another manbut I'v had feelings for two other men. One was with by first love, 2nd with a coworker. In other words, I stopped loving my husband even though I still care for him. I have instead allowed my heart to fall for someone else. My body with my husband and my heart out of place now.

I told my husband what he said really hurt me and that I was no longer in live with him, however, he never apologized for what he said. Like many things, I don't think he took it very seriously. That was a year ago.

Am I being selfish because I'm no longer attracted to him? I keep wanting someone who is as ambitious as I am, more mature, talks and hold me, and someone who shares similar interests. I have told him all this but all he does is play WoW. I think I married him for the wrong reasons & I feel bad about i

2007-10-18 08:55:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't believe her...
I saw them doing it..
and it ruined my eyesight/life completly.
and also my other friend,Minette is also supporting
their cheating bastardiness relationship to the
100%...



Maribel C. is preggy with my hubby's son.. :[
I feel like if my world is being torn down into
little pieces..
I beginned cutting myself and then
i find out that mary guardias is a biscuit..
=]



JONAS BROTHERS SUCKS

o

2007-10-18 08:54:54 · 36 answers · asked by jeaneth_pink_soccer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there going to be a chance to look for what I believe is the perfect mate or friend ? And we must consider zodiac signs that correspond, too. I'd like a chance pick SOME of my stuff thatta way!!!!

2007-10-18 08:53:17 · 2 answers · asked by Wonder-full 2 in Singles & Dating

his wife cannot want to make love to him, never..?that she never would like to sleep with a man that calls her ''idiot cow stupoid etc?

It is obviously taht a woman preffers to make love and is excited only by a man who considers her as being intelligent..otherwise..why would sleep with a man who sees no difference between her and a stupid cow?

do the men care that their wives don't want them..or they jsut don't care and usees them..?

2007-10-18 08:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you treat your spouse as you would like to be treated? When you complain about what they don't do ," do you think of what you should be doing instead from time to time?"

2007-10-18 08:51:49 · 6 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 08:51:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that is married and we hang out with him and a group of people like every weekend. He is known to be a philanderer and is quite the playboy. I know him and his wife through my cousins and we have all been good friends but there is this problem that keeps occurring. Every time we party he hits on me at first i ignored it because he did while he was drunk but it happens every time every one is drunk. He doesn't hit on me when he is sober and everyone else is sober i mean he looks at me and talks to me but his tone and his actions change when we all start to drink. I have confronted him when him and i have been sober and he blames it on the alcohol. But he made a comment to me the other time saying he has always wanted to hook up with me and that made me think maybe it's not the alcohol maybe it's him. There is always other girls when we party and he never hits on them it's always me so is he lying when he says because of the alcohol or is it because he's a cheating jerk

2007-10-18 08:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All of a sudden she became someone else and slept with a classmate of her's that goes to our school. It took 3 days to make this all official but now we're done and I'm hurt, depressed, and I haven't eaten for the past 5 days. She wanted to see whats out there to see if she really loves me (which could be BS) I haven't heard from her in the past week and this makes me sick. I know I will move on and find a true person out there. Will she regret this?

2007-10-18 08:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by vict0ry0ne 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 08:41:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's incredibly smart, a talented musician, funny, and loyal. He's introduced me to my faith. I have learned patience, and to pick my fights. My problem lies with his bipolar disorder. He lacks in organization and motivation. I get frustrated because it's like pulling teeth to get him to help around the apartment. He wants children, but isn't consistant with caring for our pets. He wants to get married, but I'm affraid his history of poor credit and debt will make it impossible to get a home, future cars, etc. He has just started his fourth job since we met one year ago. I work 64 hours a week trying to save for college. Because his loss of money between jobs all my savings had to cover rent and bills. I love the man but hate the disorder. I am emotionally and physically tired. I am affraid he will go back to alcohol (he's been in recovery since we met), not taking his medication, and becoming homeless. I love him too much to want this to happen, and I care about his family too much

2007-10-18 08:38:02 · 16 answers · asked by BIRDY85 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband thinks I am being rude to my inlaws because I do not want to spend time around them. The problem is mostly my fil. He is very obnoxious and loud. He is always cracking jokes about people and how stupid they are. He swears and uses words like ***%er , greaser, fat bit$ch, etc. I could go on, but you get the picture. I just can't stand that behavior. Confronting him is out of the question, because he likes to debate with you, and confronting him would make his day. The only way I know of dealing with him is to just avoid being around him. My husband feels that I am rude to his parents and should just be around them and put up with them like he does. I have talked to him about talking to his dad, but he is terrified of his dad's temper, so that is out of the question. Until my husband grows a backbone I do not see me being around his family much. Do you think I am being rude to them?

2007-10-18 08:37:51 · 10 answers · asked by I39 5 in Family

call my parents no one answers so i get a ride from my friends to mcdonalds then home = 2 weeks grounding
Go to a baseball game get dropped off at my friends house to get picked up = 2 weeks grounded
Brother call me gay so i told him he was = 1 month no practicing with my band

2007-10-18 08:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-18 08:35:45 · 3 answers · asked by afghan_candy™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to control him but he doesn't let me. Any suggestions?

2007-10-18 08:35:41 · 48 answers · asked by vanilli 3 in Marriage & Divorce