All of a sudden she became someone else and slept with a classmate of her's that goes to our school. It took 3 days to make this all official but now we're done and I'm hurt, depressed, and I haven't eaten for the past 5 days. She wanted to see whats out there to see if she really loves me (which could be BS) I haven't heard from her in the past week and this makes me sick. I know I will move on and find a true person out there. Will she regret this?
2007-10-18 08:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by vict0ry0ne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's in her "get nailed by everything with two legs" stage. Good riddance to her! Find an older girlfriend.
2007-10-18 08:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What young people should regret is thinking they can find their one and only in their teens and settle down into a relationship that will last a lifetime or anything past a couple of years. Young people go through too many changes to think they won't find someone else along the way, maybe many times along the way to finding their one and only. Until approximately their mid to late 20's most of us aren't capable of developing stable, intimate, long-lasting relationships.
2007-10-18 08:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible she did want to see what else was out there. She could regret it, or she could find out that you really weren't the one, you were the one she was comfortable with. There is no excuse for cheating though and no one deserves that.
Maybe you both are better off. A lot of relationships turn sour around that time... either you make it through it or you dont. You should take some time out too and date around and try to figure out what you want. You could realize too that there is someone better out there for you.
2007-10-18 08:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by sprkldlite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time wondering if she'll regret it or not. It will drive you crazy and the truth is that no-one on here can speak for her.
I think that she was selfish for hurting you in that way, but i guess it's better that she ended it and went her own way instead of continuing to cheat on you. I'm sure that it hurts..."heartbreak is nooooo joke" but it will get better and if you allow yourself to move on you will be better off! I think that the best revenge for a broken heart is not allowing that heartbreak to take over you. Hearing that you are doing just fabulous is better than hearing that you have lost 10 pounds and haven't left the house in weeks....
Good Luck and feel better!!!
2007-10-18 09:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by beyondeyezcanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definently. You can't spend 3 years of your life with someone and not regret messing it up.
Never go back to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Your ex is a hoe and you are a great guy that have a great life.
Charma will get her =]
ashummz05@yahoo.com
2007-10-18 08:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are in high school or if the girl hasn't had many bf's then she's probably does want to go out and have fun because there are so many other people out there... and alot of people can be in long term relationships but won't end up being with that person for the rest of their life... don't be depressed be happy that you were with her for so long but don't dwell on it, it'll just hurt you more
2007-10-18 08:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You werent doing it for her anymore. You need to move on. It seems as if she is a selfish wench anyway.
2007-10-18 08:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by no_dream_selling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she was on the normal three year plan,----- you hadn't proposed in three years,------- so she moved on....
2007-10-18 08:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋