What goes through your mind when your boyfriend tells you he is uncircumcised?
Do you think it is best to tell a girl or to just let her find out?
2007-10-18 09:16:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has never been mentioned. Should a girl tell you if she waxes? Both are just "visual" differences. Anything that is neat and clean is fine!
2007-10-18 09:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by justwondering 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When the time is right, and I don't mean right before you sleep together. If you know it's going to happen soon then just say "I just want you to know I'm uncircumcised".
From my own personal experience to me it does matter, and they've done studies. That women are prone to get yeast or bacterial infections from uncircumcised men. Why?? Poor hygiene on the men's side. They don't pull back the foreskin and make sure to wash it with soap to get all the gunk that gets stuck in there. You pee all day and skin traps the last few drops of urine, yuck. So I'd recommend soap and water right before you have sex. But most men don't care.
So if a guy tells me he's uncircumcised I get turned off immediately and if he doesn't and I find out in bed. No oral sex for him. Because guys don't usually wash before sex and it is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo freakin nasty to taste all that old pee, and gunk. If uncircumcised men would take better care of their foreskin and whats under it I might not be so biased but I've never met a guy who took that good of care of his penis.
Oh, and whether you are circumcised or not. Please wash behind your scrotum too???????
xxx
2007-10-18 09:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like it better and some don't. Just let them find out on their own. It's not something you need to share up front in a relationship. If she
wants a long term relationship then she probably won't care. It's more important to focus on your personality. A sense of humor is what we notice first, after the initial meeting.
My husband was uncircumcised and most of my boyfriends weren't. It make a difference. Just be sure to clean thoroughly. We don't like bladder infections. They are very painful. :-)
2007-10-18 09:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Frosty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know you mostly asked the ladies but I'm going to chime in anyway.
I don't know why you would worry about telling a girl ahead of time unless it happened to come up in conversation for some reason. After all, if you are in a relationship, something like that shouldn't be much of an issue as long as he is clean because let's face it, that's a pretty trivial thing. If you aren't in a relationship and just after sex, she'll let you know if it's a problem for her when the time comes.
2007-10-18 09:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by eagr2b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's best to tell the girl. I've never had that happen to me, but I would want to know before hand. Just because you don't know what the girl's preferences are. I'd probably be curious if a guy told me that, and I don't think it would change my mind about the guy.
2007-10-18 09:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just best to let her find out unless she asks.
But circumcised/uncircumcised, it's all the same to me.
2007-10-18 09:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Spritey 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly i think you should tell her before hand.. Cuz ur ego will be shot when she's down there and she says" what the **** is this?" With a disgusted look on her face.
Sorry to say, but honestly... kind of a turn off.. BUT.. if u wait untill u really love each other to do it.. she may not care at all.
2007-10-18 09:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Krystina 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I never thought about that. I guess I would think of religion. Without mentioning any type of religion, but that is basically why it has not been performed. Today they realize the health factors. I 'really' believe that it is a procedure that is done today. Most parents 'want' it done on their boys.
2007-10-18 09:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone but, I would want to know ahead of time. (no pun intended) If she has never seen an uncir penis then it might be odd for her. You don't ant to wait till the moment cause she may want to talk for a while...
lots of stories of infections for my friends so
Myself I would want to wash it myself and be sure its clean before I let you in. In fact this is what I tell my daughter..
2007-10-18 09:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Snippy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everybody.
If a guy feels like he should tell her, then it is up to him, if he doesn't want to tell her, and let her find out before the moment of passion, then it will happen.
This can be a sensative issue for men, and when they want their girlfriend to find out, then they will, when the time is right for them.
2007-10-18 09:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋