Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

She is a 35 year old single mom (I'm 22), that I met 2 weeks ago because she was helping me paint a (family)friends apartment. We did some painting, but mostly just talked and got to know eachother alittle. (skip ahead-she came over once, I didn't make a move.) She came over on Monday (second time) and we were having good conversation, until she started talking about having SEX w/ a 20 yr old in Mexico, and how she is sleeping wiith a 21 yr old and a 23 year old right now.( i bet she has more) Well, I then asked her if i could kiss her and she said NO, because she doesn't want to add more drama too her situation. She did happen to mention she likes guys to " Control" her and other stuff. I am not a forceful person...I ask before I just try to kiss a woman. I know this sound crazy, but it's ALL true..I know I should have not wanted to do anything with her, but my PENIS was doing the thinking at this point. I was thinking " I have a chance, she likes younger guys."

2007-10-18 07:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He thinks that he owns me and my belongings.He yells and screams when i let MY family borrow MY car that I paid for with MY income tax check.I am always doing something wrong and i dont understand what it is.Is there anything that I can do.I love him so much,but his yelling and screaming and fussing hurts me so bad....Suggestions??

2007-10-18 07:26:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like him but im not sure if is goin to wok out
he's from my sunday school
we only get to see eachother once a week is it to hard to have a long dis. relationship? and he older than me too
i dont know what to do!!!! help

2007-10-18 07:25:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's my parents anniversary and I want to buy or make them something nice but I have no idea what! Ideas from anyone?

2007-10-18 07:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

within 6 months.Can he do this? I've been married for nearly 20 years! I've had ill-health for several years and am on medication. I look tremendous though, don't look or act my age, very fashion conscieous too. Why is this happening anyone having similar problems? What should I do?

2007-10-18 07:17:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering what married men talk about with female friends? do they talk about stuff they cant talk to their wives about? just curious

2007-10-18 07:17:03 · 28 answers · asked by chicksmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well im at thae point where im sayin f*** friends cuz they keep changin up on me! so why should I change cuz ur changin! ima do me regaurdless whether u like it or not! So where I got that fiend from I can get another! But I dont know if its the right thing to do!

2007-10-18 07:14:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i can't get that person out of my mind. i felt bad at first because i know i didn't start to feeling that way on my own it was the constant staring that started it then the touch on the hand, all of this stayed in my mind and til this day i still don't know why i felt the way i felt. it took awhile to get that person out of my system. i would never actually cheat and i have never had thoughts about another person other than my husband. i feel it's the guys fault. i even started to visualizing things with him. was this some kind of mind game because i don't feel that i was totally responsible

2007-10-18 07:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My flower girl is going to be almost 11 by the time my wedding comes around. I want to get her something for the wedding but verything I've seen online seems to be for girls around 4-7. I was thinking about going to Claires and getting a pearl jewelry set. Is that nice for an 11 year old? It's been a long time sense I was that age!

2007-10-18 07:12:29 · 28 answers · asked by Mary D 2 in Weddings

My husband and I are going to Europe tomorrow.
And as we were sorting out our stuff, I decided to ask him for some 50 pounds to be kept with me for just-in-case stuff. He got worked up and rejected me. I felt so shocked. I stared at him in blank. He raised his voice and told me the money that he had changed is only for OUR expenses and not for anything else. I am even more stunned. I said its just for emergency. You wont know. He insisted on NOT giving me any pounds and got really worked up. I felt so cheap for asking for a mere 50 pounds and get rejected like this. I started tearing, no noise. Just plain shock. He asked me whats my problem. I felt even more lost.
I went to the room, sat there and cried. He came in and started shouting at me. I then got angry and said that I didn’t wanna go to the trip anymore. He agreed!
(all these for that??!) what is wrong with this man???
Well since he think we shouldn’t go there because of a fcuking 50 pounds, I dashed out to clear out our packed luggage. I went back to the room and weeped. (no noise, soon stopped.) then he said, “You’re unbelievable.” I exploded. I screamed hysterically. He muffled me and told me not to make him do something that I might regret. (which I don’t know what) I started banging his legs with my weak arms and he clenched his fists so that I would hit my arms with his stone-hard fists. I got bruises all over my arms now. I dare not make a noise and Im weeping quietly in the study room now. I am so sad

2007-10-18 07:11:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hello. i just moved to this new town and have been here for a little over 3 months. i met a girl about a week ago that is the most beautiul girl ive ever seen. she is quiet and is really nice (i think). well last weekend i was at a haunted corn maze and i just happened to scare a group of girls that she was with. i didnt recognize her right off but she looked at me, smiled, and asked how i was. i returned the favor and left. well i talked to her alittle on monday but never really got anywhere. im a nervous wreck about trying to talk to this girl. i dont know what it is bout her but everytime i try to talk to her, i just get really nervous. what can i do to get to know this girl? also i need as many pointers as i can get. thank you :).

2007-10-18 07:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants me to have nothing to do with my family whatsoever. Granted there has been drama in the past and some fallings out but it's family. I do still maintain contact and see them and he knows this - there are no secrets about that but he does not want them over to visit. Not birthday's, not holiday's, nothing. It's hard on me and the kids because I love to cook and I want to invite EVERYONE over for the holidays.

Should I just suck it up and be the obedient wife and just never host anything at home? What type of behavior are we showing our children?

2007-10-18 07:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by That Deal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So my ex has been trying to talk to me for 2 months and I was blowing him off because he really hurt me (Trust me he deserved it). But finally, after him calling me, texting me, saying how much he misses me, and telling me how he's a different kind of guy, I gave in. We started talking again three weeks ago. We've been seeing each other a lot, talking alot, everything was how it was when we were together. It just seemed perfect these past couple weeks.. So you could say he won me over again in this time. So I have been trying to get in contact with him a couple times this week and he is blowing me off? And now I'm soooo confused and I don't understand why he would try to reconnect with me then ignore me? So I haven't tried to talk to him in two days and it's really bothering me. I mean the last thing I would want to do is feel like I am "bothering" someone, trust me. I just thought that's what he wanted? Idk if this helps but he's middle eastern and catholic....

2007-10-18 07:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by April 4 in Singles & Dating

Please note if you are a husband or a wife.

2007-10-18 07:08:44 · 6 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Please note if you are a husband or a wife.

2007-10-18 07:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married August 4th and now it's time to send out the thank you cards. The issue I have is some very very good friends of ours came but we never saw a gift from them. Not that we wants gifts nor do we care for them. But these friends were telling us what they were getting us for our gift and on the wedding day we did not see one from them. Then just a few days ago they asked us if another friend gave a gift and we said no and they said oh really. Now that got me thinking ...why would they ask us that if they did not get us a gift. I feel awful because I will send them a card thanking them for their presence at our wedding. But I'm afraid that maybe they did get a gift and we never recieved it?? I want to ask but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. I was just going to include a thank you for a gift...just to cover...just in case. What do I do???

2007-10-18 07:07:31 · 11 answers · asked by Goldie 3 in Weddings

i was committed to somebody for 3yrs.we became too closed and everything was okey until one day he went to work in abroad as an engineer then he promised me after 1yrs we are going to get married i expect too much on his word then after few months theres a big change on his attitude. he doesnt call nor text me.most of the time i call him but for him to replied my text and called me is a sin..i was too bothered then one day i received a text from a girl claiming that she is the gf of my bf. i was shocked and i called my bf immediately and he admit it that its true i cried and mad then i break him on that very moment. he cried and asked forgiveness and he told me that he cant accept my decision to break him.he promised me that he will goin to break that girl because i love him i believed him and again we became okey but only this week 3 days ago i was shock again because i dont know that until now they are still bf and gf.meaning my bf did not really broke up with the girl

2007-10-18 07:06:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok today me and my frend (were 13) were home alone with my bro and were really bored so what we did was we caught my lil bro (hes 12) and we put him in my old ballerina tutu and we curled his hair with bows and ribbons and we put lipstick on him and painted his nails and now he cant seem to get out of the tutu and he cant get the bows and ribbons out of his hair so now hes runnin around the house in girls clothes and im prety sure the neighbor girl (who he has a crush on) saw him dressed like a little ballerina! He looked so cute LOL have any of you ever doneb this to your bro or any boy?

2007-10-18 07:04:29 · 6 answers · asked by Abby T 2 in Family

I have a job and I design book covers for people... however, there is this one woman that emails me and calls me several times a day about this one cover that i designed for her LAST YEAR!!! and now she is dealing with a different printer and she wants me to totally change the cover & not pay me anything. She told me she is almost done writing another book that she is going to send to me & have me proof read it, she wants me to go to this other site and get pics of some books to put on the back cover of this book that I was already paid to do .... blah, blah... I can't deal with this anymore.
The biggest problem is that this woman WAS a family friend... now she is becoming one of my biggest nightmares! She won't leave me alone, she won't pay me, I will tell her I can't do something and she gives me the phone number & email for her printer so they can talk me through the things step- by -step.

Why can't SHE deal with her own printer?!?

more details coming..

2007-10-18 07:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by *Casey * 6 in Friends

I am an american boy who is hopelessly in love with a friend that is an Asian Indian girl who was raised here(US) at a young age. She has strict parents and brothers. They won't allow her to date nor let her be seen with a boy. We are both in our early 20s, and have known each other for a year now. We are very close friends and coworkers. We have this "secret friendship" that her family members don't know about nor do our coworkers. She won't talk to me on the phone at home, we IM each other almot every night and text each other. I told her my feelings a couple of months ago and told me she doesn't feel the same way, but we still continue to be close friends. We once talked about the issue of marriage in her culture, which is arranged marriage. She told me she would consider marrying a friend(she doesn't have other friends). My problem is if I should continue my friendship with this girl, yet I really do not want to end it because she is special to me Would she marry a stranger vs me?

2007-10-18 07:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiances grandfather recently passed 3 weeks before our wedding. We would like to mention him in our program but I don't know how to do it. HAs anyone ever done this before? If so, what did you say?

2007-10-18 07:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by Merry Mary 1 in Weddings

A hot girl walked by my office and all of a sudden i had a large sweeling occur. Its really uncomfortable and its been 10 minutes and it hasnt gone away. Do you think i might have caught a virus from her?

2007-10-18 06:58:21 · 6 answers · asked by harry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 06:58:11 · 4 answers · asked by rugs 1 in Singles & Dating

We had money, yet he borrows $20 from a co-worker. He has done this before with a female co-worker, and told me it was a tip. I said Bull! Then he said it was from this girl named Audra, then her name changed to Angelina when we talked later and now its angela. Do you think he is borrowing money from Angela again and now is telling me its a male?

2007-10-18 06:55:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please note if you are a husband or wife.

2007-10-18 06:55:05 · 36 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Please note if you are a husband or wife.

2007-10-18 06:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How to Make a Woman Happy


It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes


HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Show up naked
2. Bring food

2007-10-18 06:54:14 · 14 answers · asked by Johnny 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 06:51:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-18 06:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know if this is bad or good....so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year(nov 22nd makes 1 year) and we spent so much time together now alot of my friends say it's bad cause i will get sick of her, but when im not with her im sad cause i want to be with her and i know she feels the same way i love her with all my heart but is this"unhealthy" in a relationship i only ask because some people have told me that saying that you need to miss your girlfriend(but i dont wanna miss her im alot happier when i'm with her) thanks in adv

2007-10-18 06:48:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating