how can i move on in a past relationship[ that truly hurts me?

Question

i was committed to somebody for 3yrs.we became too closed and everything was okey until one day he went to work in abroad as an engineer then he promised me after 1yrs we are going to get married i expect too much on his word then after few months theres a big change on his attitude. he doesnt call nor text me.most of the time i call him but for him to replied my text and called me is a sin..i was too bothered then one day i received a text from a girl claiming that she is the gf of my bf. i was shocked and i called my bf immediately and he admit it that its true i cried and mad then i break him on that very moment. he cried and asked forgiveness and he told me that he cant accept my decision to break him.he promised me that he will goin to break that girl because i love him i believed him and again we became okey but only this week 3 days ago i was shock again because i dont know that until now they are still bf and gf.meaning my bf did not really broke up with the girl

Answer 1

iv'e experienced it same as you. it hurts and i can relate to you. it's hard to move on really. it's soooo hard especially when you've been together for years. but you know what i did? I PRAYED. Promiz, you try praying for enlightenment. in days, you'll feel light as if your burden had been lifted up. your suffering will not last forever, trust me. something will just come your way. i suggest you leave that guy even how much it hurts. change your number, stop communicating..make yourself busy, go shopping, be with people, guy and gals. yo'll be able to move on. fight the feeling of depression coz if you don't it will destroy you.

Answer 2

Love is never enough, love means SQUAT!!! Love means nothing!!!! ITS HOW YOU LOVE, HOW, H O W!!!!! HOW, HOW, HOW!!! And hunnie he doesn't know HOW to love you (I'd underline it and put it into italics becuase its the single most important part of love, is knowing HOW to love, see I'll just say it again) Also your allowing yourself to be manuplated which is only going to put him in a guilty spirl becuase in the end he doesn't WANT to love you, he's just using it to his advantage. Love is about friendship, nothing less, but something more. And you guys have ZERO FRIENDSHIP!!! Just two strangers claiming love for each other, for loves-sake..... need to be wiser, so you can be stronger, harder, and smarter about this stuff......

Answer 3

im sorry.. but from expirance once a cheater alwayys a cheater .... so u know what hes not worth it!!! U deserve better then that... try to get rid of anything that can remind u of him and give ur self some time.. and when u ready start dating again