i can't get that person out of my mind. i felt bad at first because i know i didn't start to feeling that way on my own it was the constant staring that started it then the touch on the hand, all of this stayed in my mind and til this day i still don't know why i felt the way i felt. it took awhile to get that person out of my system. i would never actually cheat and i have never had thoughts about another person other than my husband. i feel it's the guys fault. i even started to visualizing things with him. was this some kind of mind game because i don't feel that i was totally responsible
2007-10-18 07:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's flirting...period and you've fallen for the bait...
you need to make sure your marriage is where you want to be. it takes two to make something happen so as long as you aren't giving in to his advances (or even making him THINK you like them) you should be okay. But it seems like he has already gotten to you...enough to make you think about that...and that part is all on you
2007-10-18 07:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by queenb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a mind game you must be going through a time in your marriage were you feel like you are not getting enough attention so when this guy (not your husband) showed some kind of interest in you, I would say in away it excited you to have some kind of attention. You need to thank about all the good things that your husband has done for you and with you. Thank about how good and exciting it was when you first meet your husband. Then try and do something out of the ordinary with your husband to bring that fire back. A marriage is like a job you have to always work at it or you will loose it.
2007-10-18 14:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, eek. He was flirting with you and that really can mess with your head not to mention your relationship. Are you sure your really happy with your marriage? Or is the reason the thoughts and the stares and the little grace by touches are stuck in your head because your truly unhappy?
2007-10-18 14:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hello there. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy may have got you started, but most of it was in your own mind...
2007-10-18 14:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know
2007-10-18 14:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋