too much time together?

Question

i want to know if this is bad or good....so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year(nov 22nd makes 1 year) and we spent so much time together now alot of my friends say it's bad cause i will get sick of her, but when im not with her im sad cause i want to be with her and i know she feels the same way i love her with all my heart but is this"unhealthy" in a relationship i only ask because some people have told me that saying that you need to miss your girlfriend(but i dont wanna miss her im alot happier when i'm with her) thanks in adv

Answer 1

Don't listen to your friends. Do whatever makes you happy. Just make sure she feels the same way. Everybody needs space so you don't want to overcrowd her. But, its ok to want to spend all your time with her and to miss her when she's not there.

Answer 2

If you wanna be with your girlfriend a lot then do it. But I would try and go on group outings too so that you aren't spending all your time with JUST her. It could be your friends are saying this because they miss spending time with you so why not try and spend some time with them every now and then too. It's not unhealthy and I don't think you'll get sick of her...if that was going to happen it normally happens in the first 4-6 month I would say. Be happy!

Answer 3

Some people may get sick of their significant other, but that's not always the case.

I have been with my fiancee for almost three years. Since our first date, we have spent nearly every single day together. We now live together and are planning our wedding. We couldn't be happier!

It's natural to fall in love, and when you do, it's because that person makes you so incredibly happy. When you're not with them, you're not happy: common sense, right? Right. It's completely healthy to miss your girlfriend and to be down when she's not around. It's love. And it's hard to explain, but don't fret: You're on the right path.

Answer 4

What your friends are saying to you are correct, but may not necessaritly have this affect on you. Too much time spent together is not bad in itself, but it is if the two of you are have sexual intercourse. Your time spent together should be for the purpose of emotional and spiritual bonding, but when you bring sex into the picture, that messes the emotional and spiritual bonding up. It connects you and that should only take place when the two of you get married. You should miss her and she should miss you. Being away from each other for a few days is healthy. It will only make you want to be with her more.

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel. I am the same way with my now, fiance. We have friends outside our relationship, great friends even, but honestly.. he is my best friend. When we are together we don't just hook up.. we laugh, play, talk, do things.. we do anything you would do with a best friend who you weren't intimate with. So what, because someone says "It's unhealthy" you are going to stop what makes you happy? No way.. if you and her are fine with things as is, then keep doing what you are doing. You will know if things start to go bad, but don't think it's necessarily because you are with each other often.

When people tell me my fiance and we spend too much time together, I feel bad for them.. they can't possibly have the "love" we have.

Answer 6

It's only unhealthy if you see it that way. If you're happy, why shouldn't you spend time together? Maybe your friends are jealous because they don't get to spend as much time with you, and if that's the case, you should definitely have a night where you hang out with them and not your girlfriend. It can be unhealthy if you alienate everyone else, but if you can balance that, go ahead and spend the rest of your free time with your girlfriend.

Answer 7

No. Your friends don't want to lose your companionship. True love will continue to grow over time. There is no expiration date on your relationship. Just because a year passes that doesn't mean all of a sudden things are going to fall apart. Spend time with your girlfriend -- as much as you want. You never know what the future will bring. Always choose love over fear. Don't listen to your friends! They have their own agenda.

Answer 8

Hehe aww that's so cute.
No, there's nothing wrong with it. I'm the same way with my boyfriend (we live together though - we're 20. I don't know how old you are.)
Nothing wrong with it though - it's sweet.
It IS good to spend time apart - especially if you have other friends to hang out with. But just know you'll always have her to go back to and it should make it better. And if you're like me - you're never going to be AS happy without her around, but then when you see her again you'll be so much happier and realize just how much you missed her :)

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with spending a lot of time with your girlfriend. My boyfriend and I see each other everyday, we hate not seeing each other. If you are okay with the time spent together than it's okay!! The only advise I have is to not lose your own identity, you need to be able to be yourself and with your girlfriend. If you truly love this person you can't get bored.

Answer 10

If you enjoy each other's company then don't listen to what other people say, I think its really sweet that you WANT to be with her. Its only unhealthy if you cut off all your friends or stop going out because of her - it would make seeing each other even more exciting if you did occassionally go off and do something with your mates (and vice versa).