i really like this guy but he is 4 years older than me do u think i should tell him?

Question

i really like him but im not sure if is goin to wok out
he's from my sunday school
we only get to see eachother once a week is it to hard to have a long dis. relationship? and he older than me too
i dont know what to do!!!! help

we go to a vietnamese sunday school and there isn't many of those so poeple who go there live all over mn!!!!!

is a love tri too

Answer 1

depends on how old you are. over 16, a 4 year difference is okay. If your like 12, and he's 16, probly not.

Answer 2

I think that you should start by talking to him as a friend first, then in regular conversation, drop hints that you like him. Eventually you can find out what his interests are and suggest that you two hang out maybe with a group first and then alone. Since you see him at least once a week, its not too much of a long distance relationship unless he lives in another state that yours. Hope this helped :)

Answer 3

I would say yes and considering you said 'Sunday School' I expect the 4 year age gap would make quite a difference,just tell him so at least he knows for himself and will understand if the relationship is the right thing to do.

Answer 4

Well....I would proceed with caution. Meaning you have to guard your heart as you move forward. What if the feelings aren't mutual? You need to prepare yourself for the worst but at the same time have fun and think positively.

Build a friendship with him, let him get to know you; hopefully things will proceed from that point on. But remember not to come on too strong.

Good luck and I hope the feelings are mutual

Answer 5

Well it depends on how old you are. If you are 14 and he is 18 you should tell him for sure because he is going to risk going to jail for being with a minor. If you are 18 and he is 22, you shouldnt worry about anything because thats not much of a difference in maturity.

Answer 6

Well 4 years is not a big deal unless you are under 18. If you are then yes you need to tell him to avoid him being arrested and having your parents press charges. I say if you like him go for it and seeing him once a week cant be all that bad. you have the phone and internet to keep in touch! :-)

Answer 7

Don't trip over yourself to get noticed by him. Try to build a casual friendship through conversation at the occasional Sunday school meet-up, and if he likes you back, he might make a move. You might find out, after getting to know him, that you would never have liked him if you knew him better.

Answer 8

it depends on the ages
from the sounds of it you are quite young and it could be a problem
why is it long distance if you go to the same sunday school?
don't you live in the same area

Answer 9

well ill state the obvious if its meant to be itll work out give it a shot youll know in 2 weeks whether u can do it or not...age in the long run doesnt matter

Answer 10

K. He's four years older, and so is my bf. But the long distance realtionship, hmm, it didnt work out for me since we lived so far away. If u drive and are willing to give it your best, then go for it.