Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

2 weeks ago my husband called me up and told me he was meeting up with a girl he meet 2 months ago to discuss opening a business together. He has been sneaking out of the house after I go to bed and his cell phone constantly going off with text messages and phone calls from her. He has also got a prepaid cell phone to contact her. Only way I found that out was I found the receipt. They both state they are just good friends. However, on his days off he takes our son over to her house and stays there all day. As soon as I walk out the door or he does, he is on the phone with her or texting her. He swears left and right nothing is happening, that he is in a depressed place and she is someone who listens and talks to him. He won't talk to me about whats wrong and he erases all her text & phone calls so I can't see them. He tells me that I am just jealous and he is doing nothing wrong with having a friend of the opposite sex. Any Suggestions. I love him & want to fix any problems

2007-10-18 06:12:09 · 27 answers · asked by BreakingHeart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi this is a little embarrassing for me but I really need to know . My man and I had a night conversation about our past and you know, some things or some past issues can hurt you a little although it wasn't your time but some times you feel like he could compare and one thing I am worry about is that he told me about one time he made love with a girl she was so tight and he liked it very much and I ask him if he liked it more than do it with me and he said NO but I am worry he say that because he doesn't want to hurt me but now I need to know if there is a way I can tighten my... you know.. thank you

2007-10-18 06:11:28 · 11 answers · asked by sambabe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 06:10:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 06:09:09 · 30 answers · asked by batman 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands brother is 27 he married a 42 yr old woman. This woman takes care of him like if it is her child and he likes that. She is always in charge. Anyway, she is so rude, she always has someting to say and its always bad. They recently moved out of state and she expects my husband to call his brother all the time. We dont have time to call them plus we dont call him because she always answers his phone. She is now calling their mom and telling her that my husband is mean cause he never calls his brother and that we dont care about family and blah.. blah...blah. what do I do? My husband wont tell her anything and im tired of it. The mom is always telling my husband to be nice and call his brother and he doesnt tell her why. Should I tell the mom?

2007-10-18 06:07:41 · 17 answers · asked by EVA 1 in Family

Im 14 years old and i still havent had my first kiss and people at school tease me about it...is the first kiss really great or what??? Its not that im ugly that i havent had my first kiss or anything i just want somebody cute to share it with!!! recently i have been talking to a guy and he likes me alot.....he is cute and all but do you think my parents will be mad??? im 14!!! Help you guys!!!

2007-10-18 06:07:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and shoot off all my explanations with more allegations. It hurts..Urghhh... I'm at wit's end..Are all boyfriends like that?

2007-10-18 06:06:24 · 4 answers · asked by banner 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just curious, what happened to being a good, pleasant person.......

Did that go out of style?

Seriously, you all love either jerks or guys who don't have their acts together.......

2007-10-18 06:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesturday when I picked up my son from his Karate class the instructor yelled at me in front of over a dozen parents about my child's behaviour for about 5 minutes. It was so embarrassing. I know my son is a handful sometimes but the other instructor from Monday said he was improving. I left after I meekly said I would talk to my son. As soon as I got into my car I started to cry. I am a grown woman and it angered me so much to have someone yell at me especially in front of all the parents. I was thinking of just not taking my son to the classes anymore, but this is the only excersise he gets and I paid the month already. Should I say anything to him or let it go? If I say something, what should I say? I don't want to sound angry but I want him to know I will not tolerate being disrespected again. He is not even the head instructor. Should I talk to him first or go and talk to the head instructor?

2007-10-18 06:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by anna_90242 2 in Family

2007-10-18 06:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by VILAS S 1 in Weddings

2007-10-18 06:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by lovetochatgirl08 1 in Singles & Dating

Currently we have had a situation come up that I said I would not put up with again. And it has happened again and I dont want my fience to leave, but I dont want this to happen again. When is the last time really the last time?
Am I the only one who does this?

2007-10-18 05:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by gennsss 2 in Singles & Dating

Together for 2 1/2 years. Just reeling from an event in which he ran into and invited a woman from his apt. bldg. (he barely knows) to go with him to a wine festival, then a party, etc., w/no regard for me. Instead of fixing it, he says I should have made myself available & doesn't call for 2 wks. He then comes over but instead of making up, I tell him I can't even look at him the same anymore-I'm hurt! He asks if there's anything that could change that, I say no, so he leaves. A couple days later, he's calling me, he's miserable-so am I, so we get back. Well, about 3 weeks after that, not by his confession, I should add, that the dirty little secret is revealed. Turns out that just hours after leaving my house the night I turned him away, he went to a bar and took someone home. So, "technically" he didn't cheat, but c'mon, 2 hrs? What does that say about the value of this relationship? If he could do this after just 1 attempt to make up for last screw up? Would you get back?

2007-10-18 05:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle H 1 in Singles & Dating

please i woul d be very grateful

2007-10-18 05:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by SUPER BOY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 05:55:13 · 3 answers · asked by kind1 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 05:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by Jimmy Sarno 1 in Singles & Dating

After having 5 kids my wife has threatend to cut my b***s of herself if i don't get a vasectomy. My worries are
#1 sex drive
#2 the pain [ i am a wimp ]
#3 recovery time
#4 the risks


Thanks in advance

2007-10-18 05:53:03 · 35 answers · asked by gordie1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a lot of guys look at me as a slut but i can never tell which ones like me and which ones would just use me.

2007-10-18 05:51:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are of course the obvious reasons. The aspect that I'm curious to know is this. 3 years ago, I had a family consisting of 5, married to a Lady I love, 3 beautiful children overflowing with love. As with anyone, we had good times, and bad. Anyhow, not the point. Point is...she gave up, answered an email about "make money working @ home with Ebay". A sales rep responded & called her. Well..they built enough of a relationship over the phone & net, that 2weeks after I found letters & lingere' he sent to her..she left. Married for 12 years, believing in Love, marriage (even more important..promises to each other & our children we brought into this world together) every part of me 100% NEVER believed either one of us would EVER cheat-leave-give up..etc. Well..I nearly lost my entirety..sinking into a DEEP depression..one that landed me in the hospital. Anyhow..even 3yrs later, its hard to grasp our family divided. Several times being told this(my ?)when feeling lost & lonely. Y?

2007-10-18 05:49:46 · 16 answers · asked by Honesty builds SOLID Trust!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please only pick one answer and designate if you are the husband or wife.

2007-10-18 05:49:07 · 58 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

basically things are getting a bit samey and i would liek to give my gf somthing new. We ve got to second base but is there anything else that could be done before you know...

2007-10-18 05:48:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like i'm not all that and whenever i come around he has this certain expression on his face as if the sun were shining to bright . he talks to the other sister-in-law without any problems but when it comes to me he hardly talks and i catch him staring alot at me. one day while being at the park he came around to the side door to speak and when i reached my baby out for him to hold he grabbed my wrist at the same time but didn't let go, he just laid his had over mine and lingered for awhile and ran down my fingers. a week later when seeing him he sat next to me and turned to my child and said he didn't want to hold her and he slightly thumped me on the hand. whats going on here? serious answers please of what you think

2007-10-18 05:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, I'm a newbie here. I'm a single 45 y mom w/a 12 y child. Dated the same man for 6 years (some down time, not much). It's hard to work, raise kid and date. I'm tired of packing o/n clothes and playing spend the night. I want more. He keeps making excuses for not wanting to marry. He's had his cake and ate it, too. I lose myself every year. He's 4 yrs younger, never been married, no kids. I pursued him initially. We're taking a 2 month break at the suggestions of a counselor. I've basically gave an ultimatum - which I regret. But what if I had waited another year. I almost settled on living together, but it's not for me. A piece of paper means something - it's the ultimate compliment, the ultimate show of love for me. I'm sad and lonely and consumed with what he'll say after 2 months. Should I make a preemptive strike and just break it off not. He's a good, good man - good in bed, too. He's whiny though and I feel like a stronger person.

2007-10-18 05:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by LOVEISTHEANSWER 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 05:46:13 · 23 answers · asked by NatBug 2 in Weddings

Theres this guy that ive been unofficially dating since summer, we started dating and then broke up and now were almost back together again, im not sure what would be the right thing to get him for Sweetest Day (since were not 'officially' dating again).
What should I do?

2007-10-18 05:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by B Dani 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend really needs help, and I have no idea about this. Hope someone can help her.
She is a Singapore PR and her husband is Singapore Citizen, and my daughter is 4. If she wanna divorce her husband, what will happen to her daughter's status?

2007-10-18 05:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by kylie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really do love him and i plan on stopping right now

2007-10-18 05:42:22 · 36 answers · asked by hottiesarabaker 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughters father only see's her everyother weekend. Well i shouldn't even say that, because when he is suposed to be with her, he goes hunting, works, or is at the bar. i dont understand it! ask him if its really that importaint to do those things when he is suposed to be spending time with her, he never says anything..im getting sick of my daughter asking me why she doesn't get to see him, and when is he comming..just reciently she asked me if her dad could move in so she could see him everyday. i understand that we live an hour apart, so its impossible to see her everyday.....but if he had full custody of her i would make it a point to see her at least 2 days a week and i would take her everyweekend!!! do men and women just think differently about the time they spend with there kids???

2007-10-18 05:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Family

I'm not talking about romantically.

2007-10-18 05:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been spending a lot of time at the baker's shop. He stops every day on his way to work, and then again on the way home. I know for a fact there's a cute little redhead that works there, and he has a bit of a thing for her. I didn't think much of it until he came home with a yeast infection! What should I do?

2007-10-18 05:36:25 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce