My husband has been spending a lot of time at the baker's shop. He stops every day on his way to work, and then again on the way home. I know for a fact there's a cute little redhead that works there, and he has a bit of a thing for her. I didn't think much of it until he came home with a yeast infection! What should I do?
2007-10-18 05:36:25 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like he's been dipping his rolling pin in someone's batter. Guess he got tired of the homemade apple pie. Are things still baking in the bedroom, or has he been having trouble rising to the occasion?
2007-10-18 05:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
first of all, I would have said dat he probably is not cheating, but only loves the bread, but with the yeast infection..hmm. serious.... okay I'll say that you need to sit him down and ask him how he got the yeast infection, and why he spends so much time at the bakery cos lets think about this, you really dont want to judge him yet that he is cheating on you, unless he is caught in the act. Also there is a probablity that the girl does not work the shift through out the whole day. Another thing I'll say you do, is for you to check when this girl is working at the bakery maybe by going 15mins before your husband gets there to see if she is there, or go along with ur husband in d morning and act like u wanna buy some bread, be careful, dont confront anyone just yet. I hope this helps
2007-10-18 05:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like his dough has risen. Be casual, and ask him point blank. Don't make him defensive, just relax and ask him some direct questions. Make it casual, so information will flow.
Also, think about what kind of life you would have without him - this thought process is very freeing. You might want to do this before speaking with him, so you are better mentally prepared for what might be some sad selfishness on his behalf.
Considering you know what you know, you should be able to find out more. from surveying, or asking other people, or following her, and knowing more about her, etc.
Hmmm - yeast infection. Who knows - he may just have forgotten to wash his crotch, but hand him the yogurt and have a dialogue.
You can also go in and flirt with the redhead on your own time, and have a little double danish adventure of your own - that depends on your approach.
Either way, pick up the gauntlet he has thrown and make the most of it. Enjoy!
2007-10-18 05:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seriously? A yeast infection? I'm sorry to say but it sounds like it. You can't jump the gun though. How long are his little visits to the baker's shop? I know about jealousy. I know I am not the tastiest pastry in the shop and so I project my insecurities on my man. I think any woman he finds attractive is competition. I do know however that he married me, not them. That means something right? Make sure you aren't projecting something onto him. Being attracted doesn't necessarily mean he's acting on the attraction. The yeast infection is suspicious though...
2007-10-18 05:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by LuLu 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you enjoy expoilting the ignorance of others?
1) Men don't get yeast infections
and
2) The whole bakery/yeast thing was a bit over the top, don't you think?
2007-10-18 05:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by dpilipis 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WHOA !!!!! Well first things first, is it a yeast infection or a STD- thats what you have to determine. It could be a "yeastie" because of his underwear (probably too tight). Now if it is a simple case of the "drippy d**k" then that means that the baker's batter was a bit stale- if you know what I mean. (Catching a yeast infection from a baker, now that's an oxymoron for ya!)
2007-10-18 05:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nappy Bumbaclot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you can get a yeast infection from sex, but usually from and antibiotic,
Everyone has yeast inside of them,
I am sure he has a thing for the red head but I doubt he is cheating,
I mean honestly, 5 minutes before and afterwork
what woman would put up with a quickie like that?
And yeast? How do you know it was yeast, and not just Jock itch, from sweaty balls,
and if your really concerned tell him your gonna meet him at the bakery,
he'll bring his Booty home fast trust me,
it won't stop his morning visits as its on his way to work,
and she is at the counter,
but if you wait for him at the bakery she and he will stop the flirtation,
FYI, I used to go to Dunkiin donuts everyday before work,
and ask for the same clerk because I liked the way she made my coffee,
AFTER work is a bit much, but trust me, tell him OH OK I will meet you there and the BS will stop.
What causes yeast infections?
Factors that may disturb the vagina's balance include:
Antibiotic treatments
Oral contraceptives
Hot weather or non-ventilating clothing, which increase moisture and warmth, fostering fungal growth
Repeated intercourse over a short period of time
Stress
Suppressed immune system (including HIV)
High carbohydrate intake, especially refined sugars and alcohol
Pregnancy
Diabetes
Other causes can be irritants such as soaps, powders, new detergents and other products
2007-10-18 05:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all find out if the yeast infection in a normal or maybe caused by your body we (women) tend to have infections sometimes because of the weather you know like if its humid or if you don't shower ofter once you determine that you are doing everything right you should spy on him...I think trust is the best thing but if he doesn't give you trust then you go to the next step spy and if you see something supicious then confront him...no man should ever cheat on you...love yourself and remember that no matter what happens you are worth it and you got to protect your family for its holy.
2007-10-18 05:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by krixty 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh, COME ON!!!!!!!
How do u know its a yeast infection?
If it is, and I found out that the only way to catch a yeast infection, (for a man) would be having sex with someone , then instead of asking this question, I would be filing for a divorce.
2007-10-18 05:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by weezie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men can get a yeast infection from not keeping their privates clean. If he isn't cut, then the chances of a yeast infection are even higher. By all means, point blank ask him! What do you have to lose by knowing the truth?
2007-10-18 05:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by T. 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your husband and don't make assumptions until you know the facts.
You can get a yeast infection from other things besides sex
I think you should also tell him how his little flirtation makes you feel.
2007-10-18 05:40:34 · answer #11 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋