i really do love him and i plan on stopping right now
2007-10-18 05:42:22 · 36 answers · asked by hottiesarabaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry girl. You'll do it again.
Once a cheater always a cheater!
I think you should be fair to the man/boy you love and let him go now. You would if you love him. How many chances has he given you anyway?
2007-10-18 05:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by SamCam 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. You may as well tell him because sooner or later he is going to find out and that is going to make it even worse. You need to stay single if this is what you are going to do so that you wont hurt people in the process. I know that you love him but that love is not true if you keep cheating on him. Dont hurt him anymore and let him get on with his life.
2007-10-18 08:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really truly loved him, then you wouldn't have cheated on him at all. Because if you truly love someone, they are the only ones you won't, therefore eliminating the need for cheating.
But if he's stuck with you through all the previous cheating then chances are he's dumb enough to stick around after more.
2007-10-18 05:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Stephanie Dianne~*~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you said that you will stop now. i really don't think you mean that. i think you need to take a deeper look and see if you really truely want to be with your boyfriend in the first place. the main reason why you cheated in the first place.you need to tell him either way. you may not be ready for a serious relationship, maybe you have fear of being with one man, or maybe you seek out more than he can give you. you need to tell him the truth and leave him alone and figure out what you really want to do.
2007-10-18 05:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by mslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, if you DO love him and DO want a relationship, the only way is to be upfront and honest about it. I think if you DID love him, you'd WANT to be honest and you wouldn't have cheated. If he dumps you, that's what you deserve for cheating. Be responsible for yourself and live with the consequences of your actions.
2007-10-18 05:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by johnstonluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him, you should expect that he will begin treating you with a worstening lack of respect, until eventually he treats you very badly. It would be best for you to tell him the truth and break up with him so that at least you would both have some pleasant memories. If you do anything else and manage to stay with him, he will wind up hating you. You will wind up not even having good memories.
2007-10-18 05:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by "G" 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a problem.JUST STOP CHEATING simple.Its called growing up,having self respect.Take responsibility for your actions girl....Why would you hurt him.......If you cant be faithful you need to get out of the relationship and quit hurting that poor guy.
2007-10-18 05:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie Ann H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheated on him so there is something going on in your head that mad you do it. if you did it once you will do it again until you find that true love. cause true love don't cheat or hide stuff that important from the other person. you need to come clean now cause lies will always unfold into something bigger
2007-10-18 05:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him, and let him dump you. Until you are fully satisfied, you will never stop cheating.
2007-10-18 05:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that you do. If you loved him you'd have a little tiny bit more respect for his heart. IF you really loved him you'd tell him even if it meant letting him decide whether or not to break up with you.
2007-10-18 05:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋