a lot of guys look at me as a slut but i can never tell which ones like me and which ones would just use me.
2007-10-18 05:51:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to your "heart" and just be carefull
2007-10-18 06:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by slylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know...
you know when someone's taking a genuine interest in you. If you have any doubts, there's a good chance he's being deceptive. Be very mindful of his mood and personality not only when he is around you but when he is with his own friends. If the change is too drastic, scrap him.
2007-10-18 05:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dave2104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, talk to the guy in person, watch his eyes, they will tell you everything you need to know, if he is interested or not. if he is just looking at your body or not paying attention to what you are talking about then he is just looking to use you, but if he is concerned and is actually paying attentino to what you are saying then i would say he is a keeper, :D talk to him, if he gets "disinterested" then he is just gonna use you so please try this, even on the phone if he doesnt like talking on the phone that much that could be another sign that he only wants to be physical, or just ask him bluntly?
2007-10-18 05:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch and see which ones treat you like a lady with RESPECT. Avoid the ones who are pushy, make crass jokes to you or about you to others. Avoid the ones that are obsessed with themselves.
PS. Don't let how some jerks see you determine how you see yourself! Don't give them that much power or credibility.
2007-10-18 05:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell by the look on their eyes and whether they are dressed well and the way they are around their friends, if their nice all round they like you for you
but if they are like really bad, they will prob use u, hope this helped
2007-10-18 05:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by HELLBOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well err just get to know them?
and dont do anything with them until you know them for a while and maybe get them drubk so they lose their inhibitions and their true colours will show and also just be with them for a while so if they are playing mister nice guy then you will know after a while
unless youre not smart o gullible o very horny
butt the main popint i what does them looking at your *** have to do with them liking you or using you, I mean wheter they are both they will still stare at your *** soo it doesnt correlate
2007-10-18 05:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Chunkylover53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every body uses each other at some point ,it is a fact ,if you feel that all you want is f***** well that is up to you ,but to like somebody as a person that takes time, and feelings to get it right ,ther is no hard and fast rules but how easy a woman is spreads quicker that wild fire,,good luck.
2007-10-18 05:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is it something you are doing or have done that makes them feel that way? If it is these type of guys you are around usually then you are probably looking in the wrong places.
2007-10-18 05:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by bread 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them chances are they will just put their foot in their mouth if they want to use you and will probably be pretty cool if they want to be more than...Understand guys will be guys but don't judge all of us the same way.
2007-10-18 05:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Trevor R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll only figure that out by spending time (a lot of time if necessary) with them before choosing to do anything with them.
2007-10-18 05:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, they'll all just use you if they're only looking at your ***. The one that looks at your face and into your eyes is the one that you'll want to be with.
2007-10-18 05:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋