So my ex has been trying to talk to me for 2 months and I was blowing him off because he really hurt me (Trust me he deserved it). But finally, after him calling me, texting me, saying how much he misses me, and telling me how he's a different kind of guy, I gave in. We started talking again three weeks ago. We've been seeing each other a lot, talking alot, everything was how it was when we were together. It just seemed perfect these past couple weeks.. So you could say he won me over again in this time. So I have been trying to get in contact with him a couple times this week and he is blowing me off? And now I'm soooo confused and I don't understand why he would try to reconnect with me then ignore me? So I haven't tried to talk to him in two days and it's really bothering me. I mean the last thing I would want to do is feel like I am "bothering" someone, trust me. I just thought that's what he wanted? Idk if this helps but he's middle eastern and catholic....
2007-10-18 07:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by April 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..So guys why would he do this to me? What do u think I should do? And will he eventually come back if I ignore him again? Ahh help please!
2007-10-18 07:10:48 · update #1
Oh yeah he's not just some random guy I do love him we have 2 years of history.
2007-10-18 07:15:27 · update #2
Look to be honest with you your ex is a player and will always be a player. Once he gets what he wants he will leave you hanging dry like a worn out piece of cloth in the desert. Move on and do not communicate at all with this guy again. If you do you are setting yourself up for more heartbreak and drama.
2007-10-18 07:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask him about the future of your relationship. Ask him to be honest. Assure him that it's OK if long term relationship is something that he doesn't desire. Tell him that it's better for you to find out sooner than later so both of you can move on with your lives.
If he refuses to openly discuss this matter with you, my suggestion is to just leave him for good. As the old saying goes: If you love him, set him free. If he comes back, he's yours. If not, he never was.
2007-10-18 07:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's playing with you for dumping him....why would you want to go back with anyone anyway, after breaking up with them....the reason(s) you broke up with him ares till going to be there and it's probably going to end the same way the second time.....people very rarely ever change their core personality and beliefs, so to hear him say he's so different should have set off red flags that he's just telling you what you want to hear just to get back into your panties again......there can never be any second chances....if it didn't work out the first time, it won't the second.....move on and find a guy that you will be happy with....
2007-10-18 07:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make any assumptions yet. Afterall he hassnt got back to you. It could just be really bad luck like he forgot to pay the phone bill or something so he cant use any phones or the internet etc. All you can do is wait and see what happens. I know its annoying and he should contact you but he might just be busy.
I wouldnt worry about it, just make yourself busy and wait for him to get back to you. i would only worry if its been like 2 weeks or so. Then you know somethings definately not right about him.
Be patient & chill!
2007-10-18 07:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think whats happened is that he wanted you back, and tried to win you back , but then hes found someone else and decided didnt wanna go back, coz one he can make a fresh start with no baggage, and two, doesn't have to try so hard, and three he will keep in mind the reasons why you broke up
2007-10-18 07:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by steven s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue. If you wait and not bother him, you will have your answer. He'll call, or he won't. One way or the other you'll know. If he don't call in the next week or two, move on with your life and DON'T go there with him again.
2007-10-18 07:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloudcowboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
head games,he just dumped you and you did'nt even know it.he just wanted back in to get you feeling good then drop you like a bad habit.it's always better to be the dumper than the dumpee.as always it did'nt work the first time it won't work the second
2007-10-18 07:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's only been a couple days, maybe he's just busy? Or is it obvious that he's completely avoiding you?
I would suggest to wait a couple more days, and if he contacts you, GENTLY confront him on where the hell he's been (lol).
Good luck!
2007-10-18 07:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok as a guy and i am not speaking for them all but i think all this idiot wanted to know if he has you wrap around his finger. meaning that he can call you and be all nice and shi+,lovey dovey have sex with you then leave you out to dry. this one is good because he knows how to push your buttons watch out this guy is just playing the game
2007-10-18 07:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are playing games with each other, that is what is going on.
2007-10-18 07:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋