She is a 35 year old single mom (I'm 22), that I met 2 weeks ago because she was helping me paint a (family)friends apartment. We did some painting, but mostly just talked and got to know eachother alittle. (skip ahead-she came over once, I didn't make a move.) She came over on Monday (second time) and we were having good conversation, until she started talking about having SEX w/ a 20 yr old in Mexico, and how she is sleeping wiith a 21 yr old and a 23 year old right now.( i bet she has more) Well, I then asked her if i could kiss her and she said NO, because she doesn't want to add more drama too her situation. She did happen to mention she likes guys to " Control" her and other stuff. I am not a forceful person...I ask before I just try to kiss a woman. I know this sound crazy, but it's ALL true..I know I should have not wanted to do anything with her, but my PENIS was doing the thinking at this point. I was thinking " I have a chance, she likes younger guys."
2007-10-18 07:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
forget her...she just likes to "rock the cradle"...she should be raising her child and looking for someone steady instead of just going around sleeping with younger men.
also she says she doesnt want drama but i bet if you just up and kissed her, she wouldnt mind. she seems a tad easy, when it comes to forceful young guys. Im sure you have a chance but YOU SHOULD FORGET HER...
find someone your own age. Im sure you probably think she may be more mature than other girls younger than her, but by her actions with all of these men(you said you guess there's probably more) i think you shouldnt go near her. Who knows what she has!?
and try hnot to think with mr. longjohn...itll get you in trouble/drama..
good luck hun
2007-10-18 07:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should cut your losses with this chick. She's 35 single mom, who is watching her kid while she is at your house, and the other 2 dudes she is "supposedly" fk'ing? I mean i think since you asked you should be the mature one let her know that you find her interesting but your not attracted to her, sounds like she is trying to put another notch on her belt. Sweetheart you can't make a HOE a HOUSEWIFE and she clearly has no intentions on stopping from having multiple partners and she is probably newly divorced been locked up as a house wife and is on a rampage!!! You won't be the last one she sleeps with so don't do it!
2007-10-18 07:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just getting started in life. To complicate things with a child and a women who obviously has 'some' issues is probably not a good thing. Don't worry, though, you're just being a regular guy and doing what comes natural.
I sort of get the feeling from what you are saying that SHE likes to be in control, via her giving off messages. The fact that she told you that she likes guys to be in control may means she is just lying to herself. If she'll lie to herself, who else will she lie to. She's playing head games. Get out while you can.
2007-10-18 07:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by sfuller94 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I"m 33 yrs old and my husband is 24, so the chance is there (oh and by the way, the sex is amazing-the age difference pays off).
Next time she is around you tell her this:
You said that you already have 2 boyfriends-the 3rds a charm, and a hoe's a hoe, so if you dont want to get Fu*ked then dont come around me anymore MILF.
2007-10-18 07:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Ehh, to think about the long run, the age difference wont work. Do you want kids eventually? Not with her.
2016-08-24 15:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're willing to settle for being boyfriend #3 don't get too close to her. She doesn't sound like she's capable of monogamy.
2007-10-18 07:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow she sounds like a whore dude...she sleeping with multiple people...it kinda souns like ur asking for the drip...you can do better than that im sure...find someone that doesnt have multiple guys
2007-10-18 07:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
never ask if you can kiss her just do it, and since you mentioned she likes guys to take control asking her is the exact oppossite...
2007-10-18 07:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by daigle451 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she probably has 16 different venereal diseases....think about that the next time your little guy starts taking over.
2007-10-18 07:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Be careful.....she sounds like a player.
2007-10-18 07:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dak 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋