Girls please,please,please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok, im rlly shy around girls and i can never talk to this girl i like about the fact that i like her... is it ok if i send a friend to tell her? or does it like have to be me? and also please provide tips on how to tell her i like you without screwing up majorly?

should i stick a note in her locker and should i hide my identity on it

i knew this girl for about 4-5 years

Answer 1

it depends on the girl.. some girls dont mind, some girls do. just ask her yourself..and if she says no, act all excited and tell her it was a dare. be like 'i told them she'd say no!' then thank her and leave. if she says yes... then.. ;]

Answer 2

Okay. Don't worry-I'll give you some advice.
1. Girls love compliments. Tell you like her shirt, shoes, or earrings. Then, walk away. Hopefully, she'll come over and talk to you.
2. Girls like guys who aren't scardy cats. Telling a friend isn't an option. Tell her yourself. You walk up to her, ask her if you two can talk, and if she says yes. Ask her if she would like to go to an upcoming event or something. Then, she'll say yes. Hopefully. :)
3. If you go out with her give her compliments nad ask her how her day was.

Answer 3

I think it's always best if you do it. I would get really annoyed if it was the friend because that's personal. You should be honest, and try to think of it in a cute way! I had a guy tell me once while we were at a fast food restaurant. He wrote it on a napkin. Kind of cheesy sounding now, but it was sweet! :o)

Answer 4

Don't tell her you like her. Simply talk to her. She will know you like her and that's much more subtle and charming than if you just walk up and say, hey, I like you. Start out slow, with short conversations, and tell her you'll talk to her later, and then move on. In a day or so, talk to her again. You will become more comfortable as time goes, and so will she. If she likes you, you will know. Watch for signals. If she doesn't like you, you will be able to tell. In that case, move on and leave her alone. Good luck.

Answer 5

The note in the locker never works. Try talking to her we girls kind of like it when a guy is shy to speak up because it shows that he is affected by our beauty. ; )

Answer 6

well if you like this girl you have to be the one telling her that you like her cause then she is going to think that you are loser
well you can probably start by helping her do things get to know her a little better invite her somewhere and most importantly Be Yourself oh and when you think your ready try telling her she pretty, and you sweet things and then tell her that you like her
Good Luck

Answer 7

Of course you could ask somebody else to tell her, unless that someone likes her, that would backfire.

Tips? I don't know, usually a really good look at the person you like tells all!

H.

Answer 8

Do it yourself. Girls don't like sending friends to talk for you. Just start talking to her and let your personality talk for you. Just ask her what things she likes to do or something like that. Don't just bust out with "I like you". She will probably be able to guess that while you are talking to her. Ask her to go have a soda with you or something like that.

Answer 9

Be yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't under any circumstances send a friend to handle your business. Women like men who one act like men and handle their own business and two who can be theirselves. Just start simple, compliment her on her outfit and go from there. You'll learn it's not that complicated, step back take a deep breath and be yourself!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

I don't think it matters if your friend tells her. I know I wouldn't care. If she likes you, she won't care that you're not the one who told her.