Last a week I had a problem with one of my wife's friends who kept on refering me to her husband as a reference on how a husband should be and at the same time she had a crush on me and my wife knew it. However things between me and my wife are too rocky, unable to fix things, living like roomates until our divorce is finalised. However her friend ran away from her abusive husband and she has been staying with us. Yesterday I came home earlier because I had to complete my school assignment. I came home hoping that nobody was at home and surprisingly she called off yesterday and was laying half naked on the couch, not ashamed that I was here. Today I she called of and went to visit her sister and come back home and I was here doing my project, now she is laying half naked on the couch wants me to watch tv with her. What won't I do?I can't concentrate what I am doing now and its very tempting especially knowing that I havent had sex for almost five months now.
2007-10-18 09:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have chosed to bear it and leave my project on hold, left out to the store and I am back home to get my wallet and leave to the gym. Am sure this is a set up and I am not going to fall into it. I truly let it go and I will question my wife what are her intention and if not so even if we have legal rights to stay here, She should leave if she can't be respective. See all at 11:00 pm tonight
2007-10-18 10:54:32 · update #1
You are being set up. Whether it is for fun or to be caught in the act, I do not know. Consider the risks. Try cranking one off and analyzing the situation afterward -not while you're horny and/or vulnerable. Only you can make the decision.
Btw, what do you mean by half naked? Most women do not go around topless with pants on. They may wear a shirt and panties, but I wouldn't call that half naked, more like slightly over the edge or across the line for what is appropriate to wear around someone of the opposite sex. Please explain. It could show a great difference on her intentions.
2007-10-18 09:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I appreciate your need for sex, but with a tramp under the same roof as your ex-wife, what would that make you?
Take her to a hotel room!
In the meantime, tell her to get dressed!
That's just the type of woman every man should keep away from even when they are desperate.
She has no respect for herself, your wife or you who have been doing her a good turn.
This is the type to blackmail people or to scream rape when she doesn't get what she wants.
I'd kick her out, but if she wants some when on the street, feel free to oblige in a hotel room!
2007-10-18 16:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to end your marriage completely without waiting for it to be finalized then just committ the temptation...It sounds like you really want to in the first place to be even asking this question....You shouldn't take advantage of the situation....Your wife should have never agreed to have her stay with yous knowing the situation on hand...I think the right thing to do is to leave the situation alone at least til the divorce is completed and your out of the house and on your own....You should at least have that much respect left for your wife....
2007-10-18 16:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOO NOO AND NOOO!!!!
Be careful, karma is a *****... if you do this right now you never know when it'll come back to haunt you.
It doesn't matter how bad your relationship with your wife is you should really fight these temptations at least till you are officially divorced. Even later on I wouldn't recommend you hooking up with this ho, she sounds like bad news and what she's doing is a complete disrespect to your wife, she's using her and trying to steal her husband, how much lower can a peron go???
STAY AWAY FROM HER!!!
2007-10-18 17:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bang,bang ,bang you fool or you will regret it later on.. after all you and the soon to be ex are over right make a pack with the friend to never tell just think how much fun it will be having straight up sweaty sex while the wife is a sleep down the hall... live a little you deserve it.
2007-10-18 16:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask her to move out.. if you and your wife are still under one roof she shouldn't be doing that.. and neither should you. Don't do anything with her til your divorce is over and either you or her have moved out. You are still married by the eyes of the courts..... your wife could make things much worse if she found out you two were having sex under "her"roof.
2007-10-18 16:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by plg19632000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Move out of the house. This dose not sound very good. You wife must be up to something bring other people in your home. Get out before something happens.
2007-10-18 16:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best I can say is do you school stuff at a library and stay way from the sister. This is bad business if you aren't divorced yet, sorry!!!
2007-10-18 16:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by silver_squirrel2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it! Be strong. I know it's hard, but she sounds like more trouble than she's worth. Stay as far away from her as possible and start pressuring her or your wife to get her out A.S.A.P.
2007-10-18 16:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't it obvious, she wants to hook you. Is that what you want, do you want a woman like that in your life? She is bad news, dress her up and give her the boot. You don't need any more problems in your life till you are ready to make a commitment.
2007-10-18 16:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋