Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

I am a freashman in high school, and I have started to notice one thing- that people (especially girls) like being around fun and funny people. How do I achieve this goal? Should I be worried about this, or do I just need to relax? Thanks!

2007-10-18 14:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Drew S 1 in Friends

2007-10-18 14:28:15 · 23 answers · asked by nightowl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my ex and I have been seperated for about 3 weeks now, she's had feelings for another guy that lives far away from us. She says she's in love with both of us and is trying to decide who she wants to be with. Well, during these 3 weeks, we've been having sex and kissing and doing al the normal gf/bf things. She recently spent time with this guy and on Sunday (Oct. 14) they became an official couple. the past couple of days she's been telling me to wait because she was gonna come back. Well yesterday we spent the entire day together and she wanted to sleep over at my place. I decided to allow it and when we went to bed, she asked to have sex. So we ended up doing it and now today she has felt like crap cause she realized she cheated on her bf. We're planning to have a talk in an hour or two and I'm not sure of what to say. I feel bad for doing this and I'm afraid I may have ruined any chance of getting back with her. What do I say to her? What do I say to try and have a chance still?

2007-10-18 14:25:37 · 18 answers · asked by Scott S 1 in Singles & Dating

my teacher is pretty weird he always comes up to me and asks stupid questions like he was watering his plants and he asked me if i wanted watered it would help me grow. and he will sit there and call me up to get my paper and he will keep pulling it away and moving it so i to try to catch it
and he is just that way for some reason . you know why, i don't. anyway he acted kind of sad today and his wife did to and everybody wants to do something like give him a card and he won't tell anybody but other teachers and we asked them and they said we will find out and then we asked his
son and he said they had been acting funny and they hadn't talked much, all we want to do is help him!! he helps us with our problems!!

2007-10-18 14:23:48 · 6 answers · asked by me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok you know that "rule" where you dont go out with your friends ex? well so i liked this boy and he liked me back but we never went out (long story just go along). we liked each other for about a year and then he became a playa and i stopped liking him. but during the time i liked him and he liked me my bff became really good friends with him cuz she wanted to know if he like me. meanwhile i think she started liking him. so now they both like each other and they are gonna go out. she started crying cuz she thought she was a bad friend but i wasnt really mad at her (i still kinda like the guy). should i be mad? what would you do?

2007-10-18 14:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by m 2 in Friends

Let's face it,he lost the house and his kids,too (more or less). Lately since i got a new boyfriend my ex has been acting like a pressure cooker. I have a very uneasy feeling.

2007-10-18 14:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 14:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by nitz j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A blockmate of mine in college appears to be the "Little Miss Sunshine" in our class because she always has a smile on her face and appears to laugh a lot. I used to like her company because I thought she was fun to be with, until she keept making seemingly ambiguous negative remarks about me in front of my other classmates, from the way I look to the way I behave. To make things worse, she always makes sure that she includes my other friends in the conversation and makes me feel left out. My other classmates eventually told me that she told them that she didn't like me at all, and I couldn't understand why because I did not even do anything to her. Help! =(

2007-10-18 14:18:42 · 6 answers · asked by etherealkisses 1 in Friends

I have been seeing a guy for a month. One evening we started to make out and it felt so close. The the next day he kept texting me about how great everything was and how I made his night perfect.

Then couple days later he tells me he likes me a lot, at which point I freak out...and tell him I need time to think about what we're doing. Eventually I broke up with him b/c he said plainly he didn't want to get hurt again and stuff...made me feel like I would hurt him for sure if I stayed with him!

It's been 1 month, I keep and keep thinkging about him....soo much....and last weekend we saw each other in a club but I freaked out again and..run!

I keep thinking abt him to the point I;m in physical distress...I want him close, no pressure, no stress, no ugly confrontations and explanations.

But something inside me tells me no, it's a abad idea..that I broke up with him for a good reason -he was too intense and demanded too much too fast.

I am torn, what is to be done?

2007-10-18 14:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have berated each other slandered each other and she has said some unfavorabvle things towards me and me to her,we have made racial undertones towards eaxch other(me being asian and her being iranian),but she will still want my attention.pass by me and things of that nature and even get upset if i don't give her attention.I'm afraid that she keeps saying things behinf my back,but i've done my best to patch things up with her.(i was respectful the last few times around)but then i've ignored her ever since.Why would she keep trying?I don't trust her...but i'm confused by her actions.

2007-10-18 14:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been chatting on line to a very nice friendly man and has asked me for a date, i'm a soft touch and cant say no but really worried i'll agree because i'm vunerbal

2007-10-18 14:10:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yea i was just wondering how old were you and what was it like? tell me everything!

2007-10-18 14:06:34 · 29 answers · asked by Volleyball&BasketballQueen 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have liked one of my guy friends (lets call him Ben*) for awhile and I finally told him and he said he only sees me as a friend. I know I should stop liking him because its pointless, since obv. we wont be together. Its hard though, hes this great guy, I mean hes absolutely wonderful, hes everything a girl could want in a guy, so im having trouble getting past my feelings.

Ive recently started seeing his friend (lets call him Matt*), we've been out a few times and im just not sure if going into a relationship with Matt* will help me get over Ben*.

Matt* and I went out last night and saw a movie and we cuddled up the whole time but after the movie we went and hung out with Ben* at his job. It got me thinking that I might not be ready for a realtionship.

I finally told Ben* I liked him Mid-August and well its now Mid-October, should I have gotten over him by now?

One more thing, the reason it is so hard to get over Ben* is like I said before hes the perfect guy, he is still one of my good friends so I see him alot, and my family and friends are convinced that Ben* likes me but is afraid so say so because I am younger than him by 5 years. He may say he sees me as a friend but hes constantly complimenting me, hugging me, and tells me he truly cares about me, frequently.

Basically what I want to know is:

1. Should I be over Ben* by now?
2. Should I try with Matt*?
3. Could my family and friends be on to something with Ben*?

2007-10-18 14:04:30 · 12 answers · asked by RebelPrincess 6 in Singles & Dating

My family keeps secrets from each other. Is your family like that?

2007-10-18 14:04:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just found out yesterday that my reception hall (that my father said he booked) isn't available on my wedding day in about two weeks. The site was free so we didn't budget for that and frankly can't afford it. So.... does anyone have any ideas about what we can do besides having our wedding and going home? Thanks!

2007-10-18 14:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by LaKesha 2 in Weddings

what is the most romantic spot u can think of and give details

2007-10-18 14:03:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in desperate need to find a cure to control these kids without turning custody over to their dad cause i cant figure it out. call me stupid but ive grounded, taken things away, washed mouths out, went to a shrink who says i dont spend enough mommytime with them but when i try its a lost cause either by argueing or fighting. we cant have fun anymore constant bickering. i thought id never say i wanted to give my kids up but im gonna end up dying before im 40 if this keeps up. Someone give me some advice PLEASE!!!!

2007-10-18 14:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

2007-10-18 13:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by boo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to earn money 4 my family

2007-10-18 13:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in the mood for some lovin' all day, and my husband comes home in the mood for an argument!! Help! I need some lovin'. What should I do?????

2007-10-18 13:55:07 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been married for 30 years and have just found out my husband has been having an affair for 6 years and has another family

2007-10-18 13:46:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure where the relationship is going but she really flirts with him bad and i know im only 18 but i've been through some really tough relationships and she's the one to ruin them most of the time i don't know how to make her stop or tell him how I feel and what's happen in the past Plzz help any information would be nice thanks

2007-10-18 13:44:17 · 10 answers · asked by luvbug_letmeluvyou 1 in Singles & Dating

that you have never even seen, let alone met?

2007-10-18 13:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by BOX 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 my grandmother recently pasted away my uncle and aunt have temporary custody over me.i love them but i would prefer to live with my biological mother.can she take me without going to jail beings how i am legal age or does she have to consult someone before i leave with her.

2007-10-18 13:38:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-18 13:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what happens if you have your permit and get pulled over by the cop and you do not have a person 25 or older in the car with you, but you have your permit?? justt wonderinggg =) heehe

2007-10-18 13:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, My husband and I split a house with a couple downstairs, and we've known them for a little over a year. We have become good friends with them they consider us family.
The guy downstairs has a job and is away for days at a time. Two days ago he was home, and was talking about how he was going to be going far up north for about 4 days and he was leaving at like 5 in the morning. Well, we heard him get up at 5am and he was gone by 530. But then my husband had a doctor's appointment later that day and he said he saw this guy driving in his truck around town. And we asked his gf if he had gone and she said yep, he left this morning up north.
So it was kinda wierd, and was wondering if there is any reason we should maybe ask the guy, be cause clearly she thought he was up north when he wasnt. Or should we just leave it be? I dunno...

2007-10-18 13:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a single father I raise my 29 month old son. I broke off my relationship with my ex in Apr. 2006. Caught her with another man. She bothered me for about a month after. It stopped when she realized there was no chance of reconciliation. I have not heard from her since 2 weeks before our sons birthday (June 10, 2006). She has not attempted to see our boy since then. No contact whatsoever. I have been trying to obtain custody of my son with no success.
I went to Sask. provincial family services - no luck. I went to numerous other agencies - no luck. I went to lawyers on three occasions - no luck
I am told there is not a thing can be done, as in the laws of Canada the mother is considered the primary caregiver until proven otherwise by courts.
I work full time,supporting him is not a problem. He is the world to me and it is very upsetting when I want to keep and love him, he can be taken away from me at any time by a mother who ABANDONED HIM. Any advice - PLEASE HELP

2007-10-18 13:35:28 · 7 answers · asked by D's Dad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single father I raise my 29 month old son. I broke off my relationship with my ex in Apr. 2006. Caught her with another man. She bothered me for about a month after. It stopped when she realized there was no chance of reconciliation. I have not heard from her since 2 weeks before our sons birthday (June 10, 2006). She has not attempted to see our boy since then. No contact whatsoever. I have been trying to obtain custody of my son with no success.
I went to Sask. provincial family services - no luck. I went to numerous other agencies - no luck. I went to lawyers on three occasions - no luck
I am told there is not a thing can be done, as in the laws of Canada the mother is considered the primary caregiver until proven otherwise by courts.
I work full time,supporting him is not a problem. He is the world to me and it is very upsetting when I want to keep and love him, he can be taken away from me at any time by a mother who ABANDONED HIM. Any advice - PLEASE HELP

2007-10-18 13:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by D's Dad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

let me start by telling you a little about me, because it might help to solve my problem. I'm a very happy person who loves to talk! Whenever I get into a fight with my bf I have to tell my three bestfriends, more for advice purposes than gossip...or at least that's what I like to tell myself. Anyways he always finds out that I'm discussing what he likes to call our "personal business," and he hates it. Is it bad that I tell them about our fights?

Also when I'm with him I know I talk his ear off, even if it's just pointless silly talk, and sometimes he'll tell me to shut up, nicely I suppose, but he still wants me to shut up. Normally I don't take him seriously and I continue being silly, but today he got upset, reminding me that he told me to be quiet 3 times and I that I never listen. Everyone says he's totally in love with me, but I wonder if he's actually inlove with my face, thinking I'm better seen and not heard.

2007-10-18 13:26:51 · 15 answers · asked by Optimism 2 in Singles & Dating