I am a freashman in high school, and I have started to notice one thing- that people (especially girls) like being around fun and funny people. How do I achieve this goal? Should I be worried about this, or do I just need to relax? Thanks!
2007-10-18 14:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Drew S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be yourself man. there's plenty of girls out there who don't like the goofy guy.
2007-10-18 14:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, just relax and be yourself because trying to FORCE yourself to be funny is going to make you look silly or plain boring..... this should come naturally, and if it doesn't because it isn't in your nature, then you will have to exploit some other qualities of yours. I think the only thing you can try to do "intentionally" to be "funny" is to be natural and laugh at yourself -- if you have problems don't complain, find a positive or funny side of what happened to you and move on...... or if an embarrasing incident happens to you in front of a bunch of people, let's say, just laugh at yourself and don't grant it more importance than it has.
People consider me funny cause I come up with funny comments about just any situation (traffic jams, a tough day at work, how I spoiled my food cuz I'm a lousy cook, etc.) or laugh at myself, or speak about the things that happen to me in a funny way. However, some people are LOUSY at telling jokes and I'm one of those, so I wouldn't be considered funny if I started telling jokes in parties just for others to think I'm funny.... get the point? What comes natural is OK, but if you fake things ppl notice.
2007-10-18 14:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 03:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be something your not. Be yourself and you will attract people that don't like all goofy all the time. Relax get comfortable with yourself and be honest and open and you will get attention.
2007-10-18 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋