ok you know that "rule" where you dont go out with your friends ex? well so i liked this boy and he liked me back but we never went out (long story just go along). we liked each other for about a year and then he became a playa and i stopped liking him. but during the time i liked him and he liked me my bff became really good friends with him cuz she wanted to know if he like me. meanwhile i think she started liking him. so now they both like each other and they are gonna go out. she started crying cuz she thought she was a bad friend but i wasnt really mad at her (i still kinda like the guy). should i be mad? what would you do?
2007-10-18 14:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if i told my friend that I liked a guy, and she befriended him to find out if he like me and the two of them started dating I would be pissed!
2007-10-18 14:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by nikki f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in a situation like this. dont worry and dont be mad at your bff. things happen for a reason. maybe this guy and ur friend were just meant to be together. on the other hand, maybe they will go out and not work out very well. then maybe u and the guy will hook up and see how that turns out. you never know. just go with the flow and let things happen and trust me things will turn out fine. u mite just find a better guy! anything can happen!
2007-10-18 14:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Shana M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this happened to me and i still liked the guy i would of told her that it isnt right that she's going to go out with a guy you still like and your ex at the least i would tell her that i still have feelings for him and i would ask her if she could maybe go out with someone else and if she doesnt, it's not really a friend, friends wouldnt date other friends ex's, but you have every right to be mad at her if you want or are because she is going out with someone you dated and still have feelings for.
2007-10-18 14:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by appleeater395 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 09:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you never really went out with im than the rule doesnt really apply but if you still like this guy and your friend knows i would be mad because she knows but if she doesnt know u have nothing to be mad at you should tell her she feels and if shes a good friend she wont date him and you shouldnt either because it wouldnt be fair just forget the guy but if your friend really likes him than see what happens
2007-10-18 14:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by 10\/3you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt be mad if you an the guy never went out or had like a secret relationship,you both like the same guy it happens but the guy likes her not you + hes prob an asshole so she can have him there are other fish in the sea!!
2007-10-18 14:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you did kinda deceive her into thinking you were over him, i was confused a little just reading it.just be honest with your self and her and youll feel a lot .a better...thinks things through about guys because they will come and go a good friends family and for for life..good luck ,hey let me know how things went for you ok..?
2007-10-18 14:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by skygodess003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what a "playa" is, but if your friend doesn't mind, and she wants to go out with him then tell her it's fine by you.
2007-10-18 14:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only be mad if I still liked him.
2007-10-18 14:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. just come out and say what you did just now.
2007-10-18 14:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋