What do you do when your sister trys to steal your new boyfriend that your really starting to like!!?

Question

I'm not sure where the relationship is going but she really flirts with him bad and i know im only 18 but i've been through some really tough relationships and she's the one to ruin them most of the time i don't know how to make her stop or tell him how I feel and what's happen in the past Plzz help any information would be nice thanks

Answer 1

Keep your boyfriends AWAY from her in future.

Answer 2

Three things:

1. Why don't you just keep him away from your sister? Problem solved.

2. If he's a good boyfriend, it won't matter how much your sister flirts. I guarantee you that your sister NEVER ruined one of your relationships, because if the relationship was strong and the guy was worth having, your sister would be unable to change that. The fact that things have not worked out is more indicative of bad boyfriends than a bad sister.

3. You're just now starting to like him and he's already your boyfriend? Sounds like you're not really ready for a relationship with this guy. Do you love him? Make sure this is the case, or otherwise your sister might be well within her rights.

Answer 3

If you sister has the nasty habit of interfering in your romantic affairs( as you seem to say in your piece) then she is not acting like a sister but a common floozy.So the first thing you should do ---if you have not already done so---is to have a talk with her. Let her know you don't like her going after your guys or meddling in your relationships and you want her to stop immediately.If she does not listen, then report her to your parents and ask for their help. As a last resort, you can stop bringing your boyfriends home where she can see and talk to them.Let your parents know what you are doing and why though. If the guys ask why they can't come to your house, just tell them that you have an obnoxious family member who insults guests and you do not want to expose them to this person. They may not believe you but it will buy you some time to deal with your sister and the problem she is causing you. But I suspect your parents will deal with her and you may not need this excuse. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Some sibling competition going on here. Don't say anything, because you will have played into her hand. If anyone you are in a relationship with, finds it flattering, and goes along with her, then they aren't for you. Let her have him. He isn't worth babysitting through a relationship. You want to trust your guy, and your sister will always be around to haunt and harass you. Date the right guy and it won't matter.

Answer 5

I guess you better let your bf decide which to choose. If your bf have deep passion for your love, i believe he will pay no attention to her. On the contrary, maybe your sister is lonesome and wanted your attention and love instead?

Answer 6

Talk to her and let her know how you feel even get your parents involved if she tries and starts not to listen to your feelings. Sorry I hope it works out!

Answer 7

TELL HER TO BUZZ OFF AND LEAVE HIM ALONE AND IF SHE DOESN'T YOU MIGHT HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR PARENTS AND HAVE THEM MAKE HER THAT'S IF YOUR STILL AT HOME BUT IF YOU BOW IS REALLY INTO YOU IT WON'T MATTER HE WILL JUST IGNORE HER TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM AND TELL HER HES TAKEN.....................................................

Answer 8

tell ur sister to buzz off

Answer 9

tell her off....she should respect your space...

otherwise, tell on her, whatever

its your property so yeah...you have rights

otherwise give your sister a restraining order

Answer 10

comfront her and if she doesnt care keep ur family and bf seperate