we have berated each other slandered each other and she has said some unfavorabvle things towards me and me to her,we have made racial undertones towards eaxch other(me being asian and her being iranian),but she will still want my attention.pass by me and things of that nature and even get upset if i don't give her attention.I'm afraid that she keeps saying things behinf my back,but i've done my best to patch things up with her.(i was respectful the last few times around)but then i've ignored her ever since.Why would she keep trying?I don't trust her...but i'm confused by her actions.
2007-10-18 14:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because she probably wants to see what colour the socks are that you've got stuffed down the front of your shorts +
2007-10-18 21:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that she has a combination of jealousy mixed with admiration. As you both are guilty of insulting each other, maybe she can't or won't break that cycle because it has become comfortable for her. She knows what to expect. Or maybe there is unseen peer pressure that you're not aware of. I would say that if you've tried to bury the hachet and she won't allow you to, just walk away and don't worry about what she thinks or wants.
2007-10-18 21:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be doing it because she thinks you arent friends and she just wants attention from you no matter what kind it is. what u should do is talk to her in private and tell her you are trying to fix things with her and she's making it very hard for that to happen.
2007-10-18 21:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listin i had this same problem i sorted it by everytime i seen her i would just not even look and if i heard of her sayin something behind my back i just didnt listin and anytime she say hello i just walked away after a few weeks i never had problem again
2007-10-18 21:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, in fact iggy her from your life, she needs to be taught that real friendship knock once in life time.
2007-10-19 02:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rosks I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels the only way to get your attention is to disrespect you or make you mad.to some ppl any kinda attention is good for them weather its negative or positive.
2007-10-18 21:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by mom goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man if i were you i would just play it cool like you are and keep ignoring her cause it seems like she is kinda immature. and she would keep trying cause she prob realized what she really lost and took your guys relationship for granite but ya so just find a new girl...
2007-10-18 21:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Richie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this situation it's probably best to continue doing what you are presently doing ...... ignore her.
2007-10-18 22:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have almost the same problem i wish u luck man
2007-10-18 21:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by jeffry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because she is just a girl........ ?
2007-10-19 00:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by nightowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋