Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

2007-10-18 16:39:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to think we do, but do we really????

2007-10-18 16:38:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont think he realy loves me.. i think his just scared who can fall in love with and he doesn't want me to be with anyone else iif we break up. i realy think he is seeing someone else,could you tell me why does he go out with other girls?

2007-10-18 16:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm a very physically affectionate person, and there's a big part of me that wants lots of attention. But whenever a guy tells me I'm beautiful or wants to spend lots of time with me, I get scared. I feel this instinctive urge to fight it off. I used to be touchy feely, but now I only like it from guys I have known for a while, not new people. It's like I'm afraid of getting hurt or that they'll change their minds. I was sexually harrassed last year and propositioned a lot by a few sleazy building mates. Do you think that is another reason why I'm scared of male attention? How can I train myself not to be afraid of it? I have pushed away some decent guys and I don't want to do that again. I really want a loving, attentive mate one day.

2007-10-18 16:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do ladies try to act hard to get if he knows that shes intested in getting to know u and also when u ask her a question she tends to say the opposite of wat ur expecting or want her to say on purpose ?

2007-10-18 16:25:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I was seeing was head over hill with me. He said he loved me 5 years ago when we first met, but I turned him down. He got married then divorced. I met him two months ago after five going six years of no talking. I've never attracted to him at the time but now I am. These last two months we spent some good quality time together, getting to know each other. Well, things didn't go that well. We got into some issues, his ex-wife (my issue) and my separation from my husband (his issue). I'm not fully ready for someone at the moment and my decision still pending to whether I would give my husband another chance or devoted to him. However, I started to fall for him hard, not physically but emotionally. Until recently things go down hill when I started to spent serious time with him at his home. He started to get upset with my stuff laying around, he likes to keep it clean. I felt like an outsider when he acted that way. I packed, gave back his key and left. Did I do the right thing?

2007-10-18 16:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex boyfriend brett had gone out for 5 months, then we broke up in april because he was mad at me saying i nag to much, and hed always get upset with him, and now about 3 weeks ago he calls me , he got sent to juvi right after we broke up and now hes in a group home, he called me up and told me how much he really loved me and how much he still cared, he sounded so sincere but i dont know if he really meant it? he took my virginity and he used to treat me like such **** sometimes but i really like him i know ive never liked a guy like this, he hasnt called me in 3 weeks do u think he doesnt care or what?

2007-10-18 16:22:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whole different state and I'm not use to being with these kind of people. At my last school there were only native americans but here there are only three and I feel like an idiot when people are talking and I have no idea what they are talking about. The people here are really nice but I just can't seem to fit in... someone help... any advice will do.

2007-10-18 16:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-18 16:18:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My finacee and I have been together for about 2 years, and haven't ever lived together. Now we are going to be living together, and she is afraid that she will be worn out, sexually. Like, she does not want to have sex every day or two, like we had agreed on sevvvveral times. Is it true that she'll become 'worn out' if we were to do this?

2007-10-18 16:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by smrpg4148 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically right now there are so many little ones that are close to me. I can't choose between them. There is one of the little boys that may not care to really do it but everyone else (parents) wants to be included.

As far as bridesmaids it is kind of turning out the same way. I have three best friends and then three sisters and the grooms two sisters. I was kind of hoping that some of them would not really care to be in the wedding but all have elected to do so. I would hate to be excluded so I really don't want to cut anyone out. I asked his sister's because I feel it is only proper plus I don't want to start out with a grudge in the family for me not including them in their brothers wedding.

There is a lack of groomsmen. I am actually having to recruit them :)

OK... so 8 bridesmaids.... 4 flower girls... 5 ring bearers....... and so far 5 groomsmen.

So I am wondering if anyone has seen this done? To me I am not worried about the kids messing up and so forth.

2007-10-18 16:17:26 · 28 answers · asked by lilbobo1980 2 in Weddings

2007-10-18 16:15:58 · 39 answers · asked by flashlight 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 16:14:36 · 24 answers · asked by baby gurl 18 1 in Singles & Dating

My cell has a web enabled phone so i can check my email on the go. My dad and i were in the car and he was waiting for an important email, so i offered him to use my cell to sign in and check his email, he did and he didnt sign out. So the next day i went to check my email and he was stil logged it, i didnt mean to look, i honestly dont care about his emails. BUT he did have a TON of porn emails. And id like to think they were just spam but i harldy ever get bad emails and he had a TON. Does this mean he looks at porn? or could it just be an unusual amont of spam? my dad a VERY stong christian and it freaks me out a little bit.
(i know i shouldnt have went threw his mail, i dont need a lecture, i honestly didnt mean too.)

2007-10-18 16:14:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I recently requested an old friend to add me to his friend list on myspace. I will say that we had a thing for each other in 6th grade, oh so long ago. I haven't seen him in about 10 yrs and we went to different high schools. Instead he sends me a message telling me about what's going on with him, which I was glad. At the end he puts in there that he expects a reply from me unless my boyfriend doesn't want me to have friends. I am single and wondered why he didn't just ask me if I had a boyfriend rather than automatically assume. I guess its flattering that he would expect me to have one, but I'm got this feeling he put that in there to kind of indirectly ask me. Are there any other guys that do that or women that have had guys do that to them?

2007-10-18 16:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Little Lyn 2 in Singles & Dating

Before your married he would do anything for you, clean the house, eat you out all the time, dance whenever you asked, french kissed you a thousand times, flirted, went out on dates, etc. if you know what I mean. Am I doing something wrong? Why go through so much and then not much after? Do any of you understand what I mean? Have I lost my touch in being a beautiful woman? Or do I need another friend/lover to make up for the difference? I know marriage isn't always all fun and games and I do what is required of me as a wife, but is there something more that I'm lacking? Please write back.

2007-10-18 16:13:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I met a mom who joined my playgroup website. We met at a local bookstore for storytime, with our kids. We had a little bit of language barrier problems but I was patient and tried to be all ears and supportive during our conversations, even though I sometimes didn't understand when she spoke and vice versa. English is her 2nd language and I think Russian and German is her first. She was also blunt and showed no expression and very rarely smiled. I tried to be friendly and smiled often so her first impression of me is positive. But my first impression of hers was not so good but I smiled anyway and tried to be positive.
When I emailed her when I got home, I included in the email "Sorry, we had a little bit of language barriers. Hopefully, this will improve in the future. :-) " I also confirmed the date of our next meeting.
Well she emails back and says "I didn't have any language barriers. I understood you perfectly. Maybe it was you who didn't understand me."
This is offensive.

2007-10-18 16:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

with out already investing too much in him. By that I mean already liking him...a lot.

Ive been really hurt and screwed over by guys that I thought were good guys only to find out they were complete...well ya know. Is there any way to tell before I start to like them too much?

2007-10-18 16:11:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I thought I got a date, right? She goes and tells her friend that we're just going as friends. Might not seem that weird, except for the fact that I was positive she liked me. Everybody else thought so too, some of her friends even came up to me before and told me she likes me. Soooo many people ask us if we're a couple. She flirts with me constantly, she is always touching me, she shows all the signs of liking me. But when her friend walked up to us and said "I heard you're taking her out on a date," she says "no, we're just going as friends." When her friend didn't believe her, she asked me, to prove her friend wrong. I wanted to object, but didn't want to do so in front of her friend. Now it's kinda late for that lol. But wtf??? ok, she's a flirt, I already knew that, but I didn't think she was THAT much of a flirt. She HAS to like me....I mean it's soooo obvious, but yet....is she just messing with me? I don't want to write her off just yet, because I was so sure, but still....

2007-10-18 16:10:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont blame her for having no trust in me...But AM I TRULY READY TO GIVE MY LIFE TO HER....I PROMISED MYSELF THAT I WUD NEVER EVER CHEAT OR HURT HER AGAIN..BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT SHE DOESNT BELIEVE ME....I JUST NEED HER TO GIVE ME ONE CHANCE SO I CAN PROVE IT TO HER....I WANT TO MARRY HER AND HAVE KIDS....BUT TO HER...SHE DOESNT SEE IT THAT WAY....BUT I KNOW IT WAS MEANT TO BEEEEEEE!!!

2007-10-18 16:10:04 · 26 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going out with a few of my girlfriends tomorrow night and am completly out of ideas. I would like something fun, unique and inexpensive. Any ideas?

2007-10-18 16:09:09 · 2 answers · asked by belizeable 4 in Friends

I've got a boyfriend, who has no job and most of the time, nowhere to stay. I didn't mind, even when my mum told him he could no longer come over because he didnt have a job. But he didn't want to look for one till he got a place to stay at permanently, which i thought was reasonable. Now i've failed year 12, and she completely blames him for it, when he had nothing to do with it. I failed yr 10 and 11 too, and that was before i even met him. It's my fault, not his, but my mum doesnt understand. Now she won't let me see him or speak to him at all, and he thinks that's not right since i'm 18 and i should be allowed to do what i want. But my mum thinks i should forget him and get a job myself. We've been together for 7 (almost 8) months n when i told him we had to break up, he immediately began searching for a job all over the state. But not even a job will make my mum let me be with him. Should i listen to my mum? Or just leave with him? Because he wants me to leave the city i live in..

2007-10-18 16:07:36 · 40 answers · asked by [REC]-in-process 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 16:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are adopting a newborn soon and one of our not-so-close friends wants to throw us a baby shower. We only see her a few times out of the year and I really don't get along with her. Why would she be wanting to do this when she never really calls and we are not close??

2007-10-18 16:07:34 · 3 answers · asked by Tilly123 1 in Friends

Has his Mom's maiden name because his mom and dad are divorced. Do you take the mom's maiden name, do you both pick up the fathers loast name, or you do you keep yours?

2007-10-18 16:04:23 · 22 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 16:03:59 · 24 answers · asked by taz 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to make my husband of 13 years feel appreciated and flattered. What makes you guys feel this way, and what would make you over the moon crazy about her (Other than her womanly wiles...) :) Thanks-

2007-10-18 16:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by happygirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love to have a glass(or two) of wine every night. My husband recently brought this to my attention, saying that I shouldn't drink more than 5 oz a night. Is it bad to have 10 oz of wine a couple of times a week and the other days, just having 5oz? I get frusterated because my husband doesn't like me to drink more than two drinks, no matter where we go(party, club, dinner, etc.) and we are only 25 years old. Not that I want to go get drunk on a regular basis, but I think that it is okay to go out and have fun, and drink with all of our friends more than once a year. What do you think?

2007-10-18 16:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by h_nanny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She things your the greatest thing in the world.

Then as soon as she has her children she forgets about you

2007-10-18 16:00:10 · 15 answers · asked by That Guy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know honestly here. I know it's different depending on each situation, but is it as difficult as everyone says to maintain a boyfriend when you're at two different colleges? We're planning on going to colleges three hours away. What are our chances, realistically?

2007-10-18 15:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating