Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

and i'm thinking it needs to end soon. We fight a lot and never seem to have too much in common anymore. we do not love each other, but stay together for the kids. I met a fellow who I really get along well with and he seems very interested in getting into a relationship with me but he always says that I will "never leave cause of the kids", even tho thats only half the truth. I feel very attracted to him and even tho my husband seems to have his own life these days (going out with buddies, playing the role of being single etc.) I dont want this new guy to disappear. I dont know if i should leave +get into something with this new fellow. Counselling is not an option and my controlling husband seems to like to have his cake and eat it too. I am ready to get into a new relationship with someone but when i' tell my husband to leave, he wont. I really feel like emotionally i am already gone and i am not attracted to him sexually. I dont want to miss this opportunity with this guy.

2007-10-18 19:47:39 · 19 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-18 19:46:34 · 22 answers · asked by florita 4 in Singles & Dating

my wifes leaving and divorcing me . over my past it wasnt my fault over this married woman doing what she did . with me i was just married to my wife and had to go out of town .we had been married for a couple of years before i left in my state you can marry with concent by both families here . i had to go out to this state and this married woman kept on comming on to me like a tramp which she was one with.4. children and a husband at that time he divorced her later on after he found out what she had did. it wasnt my fault as what this hick did with me she was alway.s comming on to me . that.s no reason why my wife ought to leave and divorce me over this trailer park trash . she was older than me my wife.s only.20. . now she needs to look at this woman.s age in her.40.s she.s older than my mom why would she ever thing . of going to do this after all that. w.va tramp was always comming on to me .

2007-10-18 19:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it will be the same or more or less, how can i make it be more???

2007-10-18 19:36:21 · 7 answers · asked by NASER M 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so its probly my fault thats it gotten like this but, I like this guy but he only thinks of me as a freind. He hasnt said that but im sure thats the case. Is it to late to get him to like me

2007-10-18 19:34:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years. During these years he's never held down a job for more than 6 months. I knew he had some charges that he didn't take care of from years ago and at the time was ok with It. Now he's in jail and has been for over a month now. His mom nor his brother has went to visit him only I have. I send him money and clothing also. Today he had a hearing and I was late as hell getting there because the bus driver was driving Miss Daisy and chit. I caught the last part of what the judge was saying and spoke with his lawyer. I just got a job a month ago and am attending school studying medical billing. He wants me to not go to class on the 22 which I have a test and work, which I have to be at 1 pm. I just got the job and am on probationary period. My classes start at 8 am. He wants me to be there but I have work and school. Will he understand If I'm not there? I told him before I couldn't make It, but he was adamant that I be there. What can I do?

2007-10-18 19:30:33 · 16 answers · asked by Nina S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think people are applying what they deifne to be a good friend in their relationship? if not is it possible the reason they are single is because they have not learned to be a good friend! yet :)

2007-10-18 19:28:51 · 2 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

what is a proper age for a good healthy relationship

2007-10-18 19:28:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I use to be on child support, but i'm affraid i might be put back on. i'm not a dead beat and i am always there for my kid. what do i do?

2007-10-18 19:26:50 · 16 answers · asked by Quiet Storm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How long did you date prior to marriage?
How long have you been married?
Are you happily married?

Please share a story. Please be descriptive. I got the time to listen.

Please do not answer, "nope we were always so in love", because as you can see that would not be an answer to my question. The question clearly indicates that having been in love was not what brought you two to the altar. Maybe security or the fear of being alone brought you two together, but it was not being in love per se. I am doing research on love.

thank you. thank you. thank you.

2007-10-18 19:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd like to buy my girlfriend of 2 months a special gift to show her how much I love her. Don't want to spend too much. We are both 26. She doesn't wear much jewellery because of the job she has

2007-10-18 19:25:04 · 15 answers · asked by Jason D 3 in Singles & Dating

and am more comfortable being by myself is there something wrong with that picture?

only time i come close to a girl is when we're talkin or having sex---and after that i become distant from them---until we have sex again---i pretty much dont let anyone come that close to me (emotionally, and am not afraid) except my bestfriend---and we never even had sex with each other let alone touched one another

2007-10-18 19:20:05 · 13 answers · asked by how 2 b a thousandnaire...watch! 1 in Singles & Dating

When I dance with high school girls, I always get a hardon and I was wondering if there was anything to think of or do. I would really appreciate your help, Please give all in formation and advice on this please.

Thank you

2007-10-18 19:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 19:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

had everything good, then one little thing went wrong, and you just screw it all up from there

2007-10-18 19:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I know is going through a really difficult time, and I miss him so much and wish I could do something to help him through this, but I can't, this is something he has to do on his own. I hate feeling so unhelpful.

2007-10-18 19:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by Liesel 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up with my boyfriend because i hate his daughter,she's a brat,but instead i told him that i was'nt ready for a serious relationship

2007-10-18 18:56:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation. I've been with this gorgeous and kind Italian guy. We have been together for 3.5 years--long distance. Spent 2-3 months in a year with him, loved his family and him. Problem is I live in Asia and can't find work there. He has not proposed yet. We both love each other but I do the heavy lifting in the relaitonship, shuttling back and forth to europe...paying for the euro costs.Should I stay with him or should I leave him--any one sees a future here?

2007-10-18 18:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like i dont know like more protectiive sort of acting like your father but not quite. like im not taking you there or something else. its hard to explain i just hope you girls understand the question

2007-10-18 18:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 18:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dark or light sex and why?

2007-10-18 18:50:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my partner was abused from the age or 8 until 16 when he finally moved out of home by his mothers boyfriend, he was psychally and mentally abused but not sexually. His mother never did anything about it and pretty much told him that he deserved it, the same thing happened to his other brother who eventually moved out and now we have found out the same thing is happening to his other 14 year old brother, i find it totally wrong, her whole household is screwed up, the 14 year old and his gf live in a bungalow out the back and the rest of the kids live inside, there uncle who smokes marijuana lives there and they drink every single weekend to excess (im talking about underage drinking, drinks supplied by the mother).. I just can not understand how this can go on. Do I have the right to ring Welfare or Childrens Services about the abuse that is going on? Im in Australia if that helps. Thankyou for any answers!

2007-10-18 18:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by honeychild_star 3 in Family

started talking again after two years of not talking to each other;that was about a year ago now & we've grown pretty close again.Which is nice.I missed him alot.Well,today I brought him lunch at work b/c he's super busy working on a project & dosen't have time to go grab something.I cooked some chicken fajitas,rice,white beans,etc.I spent a couple of hours doing this b/c I wanted to surprise him.Well,when I got there it didn't seem like he was happy to see me at all;he more or less blew me off & asked me what I wanted in a antagonistic way.It really hurt my feelings to say the least.I'm upset with him now b/c I feel like he should treat me with amore respect.I was just trying to do something nice for him.It's not like my Mom who goes to see him everyday at work & circles the block 20 times(they're divorced & she's crazy )I hardly ever come to see him at work.And,our family has a really close relationship with his boss.We're like family.I just feel upset about the whole situation.

2007-10-18 18:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew a guy since one year.He is a gud one.He loves me so much and want to marry me.I cannot marry him and it's not only him,I cannot marry any other guy in my life,due to some family hurdles.I told him not to develop that sort of opinion on me,as it's impossible for us to get together.It's like almost for the most of the time,he communicates with me and says he cannot survive without me.I tried to explain him clearly and even tried to avoid him,but he says if I do so,he will hurt himself. I want him to 4get me and live happily,since his desire cannot be fulilled.But,he says his life is with me and there's no life without me.What should I do,so that he gets irritated and leaves me?.

2007-10-18 18:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-18 18:38:55 · 10 answers · asked by 91407 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 18:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom Is the most amaizing woman alive to ever walk the earth She bends baackwards for me and my idiot brothers I love her to death But i make myself sick thinking about what im gonna do when she dies I actaullly Cried myself to sleep thinking about it I cant stop. And Im 13 So im like moodswing central and i keep getting in fights with her but I know The things I say hurt her soo bad and i hate myself for it PLEASe HELPPPPPP!!!

2007-10-18 18:34:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You can only name ONE person.

Share a story. Please use details in your description. I got the time to listen.

Seriously, I do not want one word or one sentence answers like, "my husband is my inspiration" because I want to hear WHY your husband is your inspiration as well. Please write a paragraph greater than 5 sentences. I am doing research on human psyche on love.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-18 18:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've known the man 15 years- we've always been close but never done ANYTHING. We know we care about each other & he has stayed for the children, he's not leaving. She's had a boyfriend for 6 months. It's not something she puts in his face- but he knows about it. Several friends do as well. I've cared about him this way for years, he cares about me also- but considering he's not leaving- for the children's sake- they're 6 and 11- is this a good or bad idea? The lines of right and wrong seem very fuzzy to me.

2007-10-18 18:33:17 · 18 answers · asked by k girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

..when you can't be with the one you sincerely care and love?

and it's not some teenage infatuation - it was unexpected - started off as friends and went up the ladder - you've grown a close fondness and bond as the yrs went by...

2007-10-18 18:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends