My mom Is the most amaizing woman alive to ever walk the earth She bends baackwards for me and my idiot brothers I love her to death But i make myself sick thinking about what im gonna do when she dies I actaullly Cried myself to sleep thinking about it I cant stop. And Im 13 So im like moodswing central and i keep getting in fights with her but I know The things I say hurt her soo bad and i hate myself for it PLEASe HELPPPPPP!!!
2007-10-18 18:34:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her! Write her a letter maybe and let her know how you feel. tell her you are sorry for the way you act sometimes, and that you love her.
The next time you get ready to yell at her, stop yourself and think about what is really important. It will take work to get used to doing this, but it will help you in the long run. Remeber that she just wants what is best for you and is going about that the best way she knows how. You won't always undersatnd why what she does is impoartant, but just trust that it is.
2007-10-18 18:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at the age where your hormones are flip-flopping like pancakes on the grill. The good thing is that you recognize you have a problem and that is the first step in correcting it. This is a perfect time to tell your mother what's going on and how bothered you are by your actions which do not show her how you really feel. If you have mood swings or anger management issues, talk to your school counselor for behavior intervention methods. You might want to have a physical check-up and discuss this with your doctor too. There may be a simple chemical imbalance going on that can be helped.There is nothing that would make your mother happier than to let her know how much you love her and how your behavior bothers you. I know she will move mountains to help you do better. God bless!
2007-10-19 02:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you have a very emotional love of your mother. Just keep in mind that your very first love is God. Love God with all your heart. He can not die. Your mother would really appreciate your feelings about her. She needs to know what's in your heart and mind. It would build a strong relationship with her.
Whatever your mom enjoys likes, flowers certain candy, etc...Go to the store and buy her that gift. The statement you had made above...write it down on a nice card. If you want to surprise her, place the gift and card on her bed. This will allow her to find them on her own.
When you get into an argument with her, it's ok to apologize to her when you both calm down. So, this way you won't feel bad at night. God bless.
2007-10-19 01:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your not bipolar, so yeah, i know you dont wanna hear it. But its probably just puberty, kid. I did that too when i was 12. Hope that helps you, and if it doesnt, just keep your distence, i mean, dont completly isolate yourself from her. Just, you know, pick your battles, Dont flip out because she didnt get you a pop from the store (just and example). If shes doing something thats pissing you off just say,"Mom can i talk to you for a second." Then just resolve your conflicts there. I learned the hard way, if it wasnt for my older brother telling me what im telling you, id probably still hate my mom. Good luck with this, i hope i helped you and your mom resolve this.
2007-10-19 01:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by skateboards4ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the thing is moms were thirteen once so i think they understand a little bit of whats going on. just make sure you tell her you love her, trust me she loves you. all you can do is try to be better, and hope it works. fights are forgetable they don't mean anything, you can get pased them and move on, and thats what you should do. start over, wake up in the morning and start over.
2007-10-19 01:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever your mood swings to low just lock yourself in your room till u calm down.. take a deep breadth, count from 1 to 10. after u calm down u can get back to normal. this way u won't be fighting wid your mom. don't forget to apologize about past fights either n hei, don't hate yourself.. just try mending yourself :)
2007-10-19 01:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with soymissk. She is right. When I was young I wrote a letter to my mom about my feelings. She understood it brought us closer and I was able to be comfortable to open up to her. Best of luck to you
2007-10-19 02:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by n/a n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋