Family & Relationships - 18 October 2007

HELPS ME THINK.She is a 35 year old single mom (I'm 22), that I met 2 weeks ago because she was helping me paint a (family)friends apartment. We did some painting, but mostly just talked and got to know eachother alittle. (skip ahead-she came over once, I didn't make a move.) She came over on Monday (second time) and we were having good conversation, until she started talking about having SEX w/ a 20 yr old in Mexico, and how she is sleeping wiith a 21 yr old and a 23 year old right now.( i bet she has more) Well, I then asked her if i could kiss her and she said NO, because she doesn't want to add more drama too her situation. She did happen to mention she likes guys to " Control" her and other stuff. I am not a forceful person...I ask before I just try to kiss a woman. I know this sound crazy, but it's ALL true..I know I should have not wanted to do anything with her, but my PENIS was doing the thinking at this point. I was thinking " I have a chance, she likes younger guys."

2007-10-18 17:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 17:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like now it is officially getting out of hand.. the last four guys i have messed with, went out with, or talked to has had girlfriends. Why is this happening to me??? Please tell me why?? Can it stop?? Its starting to get to me, im getting upset about it now.

2007-10-18 17:26:28 · 26 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Singles & Dating

I gave more details people?
I have green eyes and medium brown curly hair. I wouldn't say I'm super skinny, but I wouldn't say I'm fat either. I'm smart, shy, funny, and can be a little mean . ( Who's not?)I like to help people and listen to music and hang out with friends. What's wrong with me to make guys not like me? The people before didn't really help me.No guy has ever come up to me and told me that he likes me.My best friend says that I'm pretty and that people like me, but I don't believe her.

16 minutes ago
I like to help people because they need help. I don't want anything out of it other than them being happy.


I really do have green eyes and it depends on the light for how light or dark they are.

2007-10-18 17:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by abbyharleydog 2 in Singles & Dating

I had mentioned to my friend that I had liked this guy in my class but didnt want anything to come of it. Wednesday she decides to blurt out after giving me a compliment “and shes single to!” right in front of the guy. It was that tone of voice where you are trying to emphasis the "secret". Its hard to explain. But anyways I turned beat red.

I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind and I just keep thinking of worse possible scenarios of him asking why she said that or explaining my intense blushing. I have to see him around school at least three times a week. So now im dreading that. I know im over analyzing. I just don’t understand why im so tied up about this and how to make it stop.

hes a nice guy, thats why i like him, but id prefer him as a friend. im not really read for anything like that. Im just hoping im not is type so i can get over it.
blah Nerves can make you act so childish… any advise would be great

2007-10-18 17:24:11 · 2 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there any difference in feeling between partners? Do vagina size vary? Does it feel any different with a condom on?

2007-10-18 17:23:25 · 5 answers · asked by Jenn M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I 'm curious what makes someone have a great personality?
How can you become the likeable person people want to be around?

2007-10-18 17:22:49 · 1 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

online thats easlier to copying from or even read some from real people poemtry's letters.

2007-10-18 17:21:52 · 1 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Friends

When will you. Forget about all those old fashioned rules of courtship. Desperation in men's eyes is often quite attractive. When will women learn to ask more men out? Like me for instance?

2007-10-18 17:19:48 · 27 answers · asked by John L 4 in Singles & Dating

Well theres this girl in my chemistry class that I just met that I like but I dont really know her shes one of my lab partners, I wanna say something to her but i dont really now her like that, every girl Ive went out with ive known for a while and been friends with previously Ive never approached a girl ive only known for only like 2 weeks so any suggestions on what I should do? And also when ever I talk to her she smiles and gets really red like one time I seen her in the hall and made small talk and she started cheesing really hard and blushing is this a sign that she may like me? or could she just be friendly?

2007-10-18 17:19:09 · 3 answers · asked by josh d 1 in Singles & Dating

(This is what my ex bf that broke up with me 3 months ago sent me recently...oh Lisa is the girl hes talking to now)

Dude, I just dont know who else to talk to... Im really unhappy right now... Like things are going in a alright direction as far as my financial status. Which is great. But i dont feel like im happy. Its alot of things. Well, it really is just two thing Lisa and You. I understand that you cant wait on me, and i dont think you should. But as someone that loves me, can u tell me whats wrong with me? I dont feel attractive at all. I want to get closer to stephanie and i cant. Like i told you, we are just good friends. It just feels like an invisible wall is up sometimes. The more i feel unwanted the more i want. And in the end im here alone sad. Cause i look at you and your doing well. Which is a good thing. Im not asking for you to be sad like me. Just tell me why you think this is. I feel so frustrated. Is it karma for all the bad things i've done?

2007-10-18 17:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

I am extremely shy and she invited me to her house, but im always quiet. i feel better if there is a group of people but there isnt. what do should i talk about or do!?!

2007-10-18 17:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I went out with a girl for 3 years, ups and down but it was nothing but amazing!! true love it felt most of the time, and she did alot for me. but when she told her parents about me, they said no and her mum even slapped her, because she kept saying she wants 2 marry me, they didnt agree because i was much younger than her and i didnt have a real job. anyways she told me it wont happen, and cried and cried, and i cud tell she truly was hurt. anyways she stopped contacting me for months, i got nothing!! not even a miss call from her.....anways 1 day i asked her lets meet and go cinema for the last time, we went and even kissed!!!!!!!!
going home i cried in her arms saying i will miss u,she cried aswel, but after that day i didnt hear from her! its beens 2 months now but still nothing, whats going on???????
we went out for years, and i knew she cared alot,she cried alot if anything happened to me, what happened? it dont make sense to me

2007-10-18 17:18:06 · 3 answers · asked by sugarguyguy 1 in Singles & Dating

Americans objectify their women. Make them believe their worth is based on looks, playboy covers but not on character or personality.
Americans downgrade women so much, they are afraid to have a female president.
Even Muslim countries have had a female Prime Minister. Whats wrong with this picture?

2007-10-18 17:16:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been invited to an exclusive party (for like the first time ever). My best friend isn't invited. She says she's okay with it, but I feel bad going without her. You're supposed to bring a date. I really like this guy. Everyone I ask says he likes me too. I think it would be lots of fun to finally go to one of these parties. I really want us to go together, but I'm scared to ask him.
Should I go (with him as my date)? If so, how on earth do I ask him?!

2007-10-18 17:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 17:12:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I think my husband is plenty romantic. But a lot of my relatives don't, and they think it's because he's not in love with me yet or something...otherwise he'd show more outward affection. But see, I think he's VERY romantic. He bought me a salwar kameez for no reason. When we talk, we do tell each other how we feel. His hugs and kisses(when we were together), were very sweet. Even w/o him telling me everytime we speak, I know how he feels about me. One time we were eating out, and he split his plate with me. We talk about "romantic actions" all the time! ONe time, he made sure I took my cold medicine(I'm forgetful in those matters at times). He held my hand everytime we went somewhere. We even cuddled and watched a movie, and I fell asleep in his arms! These are all the public displays of affection(except the hugs and kisses).

I feel they're romantic. I know it's ok to give hugs and kisses in public now we're wed, but we don't want to! He ignores all the well wishers, but I can't.

2007-10-18 17:05:15 · 22 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Marriage & Divorce

what makes u interested in a girl?
do u see her personality or wat?
and wat r sum signs u give when u like them?

2007-10-18 17:04:49 · 18 answers · asked by Jacky 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm extremely lucky to live in Alaska, where they pay you money every year just to live here. That being said, what do you do if your husband spends all that money (this year it was $3,308) on a truck and a gun? We had agreed to pay off bills with it....I guess my question is, how do I not get so pissed? The money's gone, and we can't just get a refund, so there's nothing I can do about that. I just need some tips to try not to get so pissed off about this. Thanks everyone!

2007-10-18 17:04:43 · 26 answers · asked by moosesandsnow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do u think of this marriage????
Do u think that she should have told her father about this????
Or do u think that she has done a right thing??????

2007-10-18 17:04:09 · 6 answers · asked by aksm_14 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He says there is nothing going in but i live in Wa...he lives in Georgia because of the military. She lives in NC only 3 hours away. Now he tells me they talk often. He says to worry..but I am soooo upset at him! How do i confront him about this, he does have a child with her???

2007-10-18 17:03:20 · 12 answers · asked by lupe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it acceptable???...would it last long???..state your side..

2007-10-18 17:01:36 · 13 answers · asked by kriztin 1 in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i have been together for 3 years now and he always picks his mom over me and we have 2 kids help what to do thanks

2007-10-18 16:59:45 · 31 answers · asked by big mama 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help because i am going to lose him and we have been together for 3 years.........

2007-10-18 16:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and my boyfriends best friend who is 17 is always trying to convince me to have sex with him I always say no his response is always "Roy will never know". Then I tell him that one i am not a cheater and two I don't love him i don't even like him. But he never stops I told my boyfriend and they talked and his friend said that he was just kidding and then the day after was like "If you tell Roy then Roy will know." The he tried to get me to do it again I told my boyfriend again and this time his best friend confirmed everything and now they are not friends and I feel so bad! I just don'r know what to do.

2007-10-18 16:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by socceranglex03 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody know how I can get my fat assed girlfriend Rose Marie out of the bedroom? She is now 678 pounds and can barely get her solid *** out of the king size bed we have .This is a real bummer as we live in the Barton and Sherman area and I dont like going looking for crack alone. Please help with any suggestions you have! Thank you!!!

2007-10-18 16:49:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-18 16:48:37 · 2 answers · asked by Mohammed , BiGayBabe 1 in Weddings

2007-10-18 16:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-18 16:46:42 · 27 answers · asked by grace 4 in Singles & Dating

I meet him 2 months ago. Met each other's mommies, spent every moment we aren't at work with one another. I'm 25, he's 37 so i don't do the "are you my boyfriend?" thing. i do however tell him that if we are having sex that i will only keep it going if it's exclusive and he agrees. he's at a bar with a female friend who tells the bartender that they are sleeping together. the bartender is a good friend who tells me. he denies it and i look through his phone (juvenile, i know) to find a text message from her that says "i'm sorry, i didn't know she knew her". so it's obvious it's true. i am still willing to work this out if he wants to but is it worth it? is it okay seeing that there was no official "status" between us? p.s. i'm no angel. i screwed my ex a week after he and i started seeing each other but realized that i DID want to be with new guy only and haven't strayed (or wanted to stray) since. i'm a cynical girl so my "whatever, it's all bullshit" answer is all i have

2007-10-18 16:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating