Cant get over my embarrassment! help!?

Question

I had mentioned to my friend that I had liked this guy in my class but didnt want anything to come of it. Wednesday she decides to blurt out after giving me a compliment “and shes single to!” right in front of the guy. It was that tone of voice where you are trying to emphasis the "secret". Its hard to explain. But anyways I turned beat red.

I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind and I just keep thinking of worse possible scenarios of him asking why she said that or explaining my intense blushing. I have to see him around school at least three times a week. So now im dreading that. I know im over analyzing. I just don’t understand why im so tied up about this and how to make it stop.

hes a nice guy, thats why i like him, but id prefer him as a friend. im not really read for anything like that. Im just hoping im not is type so i can get over it.
blah Nerves can make you act so childish… any advise would be great

Answer 1

Hi, Kat.

Sorry about your embarrassment.

Let me give you some advice that will do you a lot of good for the rest of your life:

1. Do not worry about things you cannot control, because there is nothing you can do about them anyway.

2. Do not worry about things that you can control, because you are in charge!

Believe me, this will save you a lot of trouble!

So, stand up for yourself if you're challenged. There's nothing wrong with liking someone. And here's the truth: If he doesn't like you back, no biggie. There will be another guy you'll like in a day, a week or a month, if you're open to it.

If he or anyone else asks you why you blushed, tell them, "I'll give you a dollar right now if you can convince me you've never blushed!" Then when they make some lame attempt to do so, say, "I cry BS on that. You'll have to do a lot better!"

You will have completely turned the tables, and the guys you want are the guys who dig confident chicks who don't take crap from people who don't really matter.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Thats being a teen for ya.. Just try to stay calm and composed n cool.
What I learnt over the years is that I shouldn't focus my thoughts too seriously on any girls, or in your case a guy, that you are only goin to consider a crush.