HELPS ME THINK.She is a 35 year old single mom (I'm 22), that I met 2 weeks ago because she was helping me paint a (family)friends apartment. We did some painting, but mostly just talked and got to know eachother alittle. (skip ahead-she came over once, I didn't make a move.) She came over on Monday (second time) and we were having good conversation, until she started talking about having SEX w/ a 20 yr old in Mexico, and how she is sleeping wiith a 21 yr old and a 23 year old right now.( i bet she has more) Well, I then asked her if i could kiss her and she said NO, because she doesn't want to add more drama too her situation. She did happen to mention she likes guys to " Control" her and other stuff. I am not a forceful person...I ask before I just try to kiss a woman. I know this sound crazy, but it's ALL true..I know I should have not wanted to do anything with her, but my PENIS was doing the thinking at this point. I was thinking " I have a chance, she likes younger guys."
2007-10-18 17:27:22 · 19 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* Sweety you DON"T need her! She is bad news!
2007-10-18 17:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably a walking disease, and she obviously loves the drama, or she wouldn't be string three and talking sex at you. Sounds very much like something you could live to regret. UGH.
I'm 40, and I date, but not 3 at a time, and I don't talk sex to men, because I know exactly what they'll be thinking. I'm not a prude, I'm not a slut. But a woman like her, is perfectly aware of what she is doing.
Good luck, whatever happens.
2007-10-19 00:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Foggy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you worried about her and all her bf's? if she wants to be a hoochie let her be one..why are you worried about it? you seem to be on the same page as her..when you want to kiss her after she is telling you she is messing with 3guys? that is gross!! then you wonder why you wake up with some std's..because this woman you are trying to kiss has already informed you about 3guys in the picture you want to be number 4..that says alot about the both of you..you should have let it stand where it stood..when you two were painting that should have been it..where is your values and morals? now you are on yahoo talking about how pitiful this whole situation is...get a life! dont you think you deserve better? i guess not
2007-10-19 00:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear of her!! Your weenie does the talking but your checkbook will be hers for the next 18 to 22 years as you hand over child support!! Besides can you really trust someone like her if you are foolish enough to get serious? If you're that hard up, get a hooker!! It will cost you less in the long run!!
2007-10-19 00:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by A. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's terrified of commitment so she sleeps with younger guys b/c they make her feel younger. shouldn't you be going after 18 year olds anyway?? why mess around with the olde town tramp, especially since you dont know how many others there are or have been. unless your searching for an STD i would stay away from the bird!!!
2007-10-19 00:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN just go for it if you see her again walk up to her grab her by her shoulders push jher against the wall (try to be close to the wall so she won't fall to the floor) & just start kissing her; If she's as wild as you say she'll reply (be sure to have condoms with you.)
2007-10-19 00:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a lotta drama and stds =/ probably better if ya kept yer member outta harms way
2007-10-19 00:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your insane! Why would you want to be with someone who has that much drama in their life!
Have you heard of SEXUAL transmitted DISEASES! Hello!
Move on.
2007-10-19 00:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by RoadRunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better get her to get a check up . and then head for the hills . find someone who will be true to you. and you to her.
2007-10-19 00:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this?? Do I look good in Prison Stripes?
2007-10-19 00:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wth's wrong with that woman? i feel bad for the kids
2007-10-19 00:31:35 · answer #11 · answered by chika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋