I am 16 and my boyfriends best friend who is 17 is always trying to convince me to have sex with him I always say no his response is always "Roy will never know". Then I tell him that one i am not a cheater and two I don't love him i don't even like him. But he never stops I told my boyfriend and they talked and his friend said that he was just kidding and then the day after was like "If you tell Roy then Roy will know." The he tried to get me to do it again I told my boyfriend again and this time his best friend confirmed everything and now they are not friends and I feel so bad! I just don'r know what to do.
2007-10-18 16:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by socceranglex03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't feel bad, that guy sounded like trash, besides yer BF didn't need a friend that was trying to sleep w/ his chick ;p
2007-10-18 16:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's friend is an asshole. If he was trying to get you to cheat on him, then that's exactly the kind of "friend" your boyfriend DIDN'T need anyway. You've done him a huge favor by getting rid of this backstabber, so don't feel bad. If anything, be proud! I know your boyfriend appreciates your honesty and your faithfulness much more than he would have appreciated keeping a so-called friend who would hurt him that way.
2007-10-18 23:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Baron Hausenpheffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... don´t feel bad... you did great thing there... I mean.. wouldn´t you had done the same thing (stop friendship) if your best friend ask you boyfriend that? And well... i guess your boyfriend really loves you... i mean.. he could´ve dump you and say hes best friend would never do that, that you´re crazy... be happy!!!
2007-10-19 00:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by whitekitty. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing
think of it this way, how would you feel if your best friend (female bestfriend) begged your boyfriend to have sex wit her, and that she'll keep it a secret
you'd probably be pissed about it, this is how your boyfriend would have felt if you went on with having sex with your boy's best friend
2007-10-18 23:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by mc_muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your problem --- its Roy's really --- he has found out his "best friend" is not a friend at all --- he needs to get past it --- you have done nothing wrong --- best wishes
2007-10-19 00:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, yeah guys will do anything....thats horrible....ahhh...well there's nothing you can do, but realize that you did nothing wrong ;) ...but is it that your boyfriend stopped being friends with the guy after his best friend confirmed, and not after your initial deposition? hargh...
2007-10-18 23:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by ancientdelerium 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about them not being friends anymore, you did the right thing and so did your bf if he's not friends with that asshole anymore.
2007-10-18 23:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by DDgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY ABOUT IT BECAUSE YOU DID YOUR BOYFRIEND A FAVOR BECAUSE HE WAS NOT A TRUE FRIEND ANYWAY AND NO YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BEING HIT ON
2007-10-18 23:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by cutie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your fault babe, you did the right thing. dont let him guilt trip u now.
2007-10-18 23:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by PinkDuckie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋