Like now it is officially getting out of hand.. the last four guys i have messed with, went out with, or talked to has had girlfriends. Why is this happening to me??? Please tell me why?? Can it stop?? Its starting to get to me, im getting upset about it now.
2007-10-18 17:26:28 · 26 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't go after them. they try talking to me
2007-10-18 17:32:23 · update #1
becuase guys that have girlfriends usually flirt even more.. they want what they know for a fact they cant have.. id take it as a compliment.
2007-10-18 17:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Manda 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you know these guys have girlfriends before you do stuff with them? Because this is very wrong, think about how you would feel if you found our your boyfriend was doing this. You are possibly giving out the wrong impression to guys. For some reason, they are maybe seeing you as someone to "mess around" with, and not as a serious girlfriend. Try sending out different vibes. First off, absolutely do not talk to any guys that are already taken. If they try to talk to you, say absolutely not, I deserve to be a guy's #1, and walk away. Try getting to know different kind of guys. Maybe hang around in different places. You don't want to attract a guy that just happens to be single right now, but might end up doing the same thing to you later. Don't act too easy. This can Definitely attract the wrong kind of guys who are just looking to have some fun. Good luck and just remember- don't sell yourself short!
2007-10-18 17:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Joie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to blow smoke up your *** or anything, but if you're attractive you can't help it. It appears as though the guys with girlfriends can't help it either. You're not the one doing anything wrong, but if you know the guy has a girlfriend why are you doing it? Are you that desperate for attention? Do unto others as you would want done to you.
Regards,
Brandon
2007-10-18 17:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guys if they have a girlfriend first. Not only will this get SOME honest answers but it may somewhat discourage those who would otherwise not tell you. I'm not being mean but have you considered not messing with guys before you are sure they dont have a girlfriend...?
2007-10-18 17:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Shaun B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How you attracted to a guy that has a girlfriend with a 3yr relationship and hes telling you that he likes you. How you know he wont do the same to you. For example if ya ever go out he might tell other girls "oh i like you". The best suggestion I can tell you is to let him and his girl live a good life and find a single tru guy. How would you like it if you going out with a guy for 3yrs and this other girl just cums up and all.?
2016-03-13 01:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that is it not you. The fact that these guys have girlfriends means they are attractive and appealing. So basically you have good taste! Unfortunately, these guys know how marketable they are and are trying to sow as many wild oats as they can. That's what guys do. The trick is making yourself just unavailable enough so that these guys end up ditching the other girls for you. The key is understanding guys are in it for the chase and the conquest. Good luck girl!
2007-10-18 17:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by Trauma31 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is probably that you are attracted to guys with girlfriends... that's ok, just try to get one of the guys to break up with his girl and you can move in as the new girl... Guys are always looking for something better....
Just try to be the better girl...really try and let the guy want to be with you instead....
2007-10-18 17:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People are always attracted to things that is not ours. I just had the same thing happen to me but I took it like a woman and told him that he can't have cake and cookies at the same time because things can get ugly so i did what i had to do....whipped it on him and left. If he want me he know how to find me. So now he seen me with another man and he flipped.now he wants me. he moved out of her house now the balls in my court.Good Luck!
2007-10-18 17:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls beat you, I guess. There aren't a lot of awesome guys to go around, but there are some. Look for less likeable guys, but still likeable.
Besides, there's nothing wrong with just being their friends, right?
2007-10-18 17:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh you know i am attracted to married man, but i never fall for them. I just say no all the time. So i think it depends on you. If you know that they have gf then you just say no. I am sure that you are also attracted to sginle men, just you didnt find it yet. later you will.
2007-10-18 19:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sinatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋