I knew a guy since one year.He is a gud one.He loves me so much and want to marry me.I cannot marry him and it's not only him,I cannot marry any other guy in my life,due to some family hurdles.I told him not to develop that sort of opinion on me,as it's impossible for us to get together.It's like almost for the most of the time,he communicates with me and says he cannot survive without me.I tried to explain him clearly and even tried to avoid him,but he says if I do so,he will hurt himself. I want him to 4get me and live happily,since his desire cannot be fulilled.But,he says his life is with me and there's no life without me.What should I do,so that he gets irritated and leaves me?.
2007-10-18 18:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ask him not millions of people you do not know...
2007-10-18 18:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Borat2® 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would not be a nice thing to do for either of you so I will not give you any ideas Except to say- tell him the truth. As hard as it will be, he has to know the truth. You owe him that much because of how much he loves you. It's the only way! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-19 01:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by PROUDJEW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any desire to marry him? If you actually love him, whether you marry him or not, then you probably don't want to hurt him. It seems that he loves you so he probably won't leave you easily. Talk to him. If you don't love him back, it's best to let him go.
2007-10-19 02:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong of him to pressure you by saying he will hurt himself. Tell him to back off! If he cares about you as a friend he wouldn't put you in a position like that. You have to hold tru to your beliefs and hopefully you can stay friends.
2007-10-19 01:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Elena H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you go around him be somewhat stand-offish. Whatever you do that he likes stop and do the opposite. Be kind of rude too. Try that and see if it works; if it doesn't just leave him alone & if he trys to hurt himself let him, but even if you do care don't let him no that.
2007-10-19 01:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him company to the extent you can give him. he will understand your difficulties slowly and slowly.
Dont make him forget you at this juncture
2007-10-23 00:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by driverleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to be around you all the time, that's not good. so maybe try to tell him but it would really be bad if you break his heart, so talk to him privately, see his reaction then
2007-10-19 01:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the burden of love, there is no other way then to let him "fall".
2007-10-19 01:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by SIXAXIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since there is no likelihood of your going to wed, just start ignoring him totally.
2007-10-19 01:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore him.
2007-10-19 01:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by midnitrondavu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋