I need to know honestly here. I know it's different depending on each situation, but is it as difficult as everyone says to maintain a boyfriend when you're at two different colleges? We're planning on going to colleges three hours away. What are our chances, realistically?
2007-10-18 15:59:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to be honest it depends on your status. If you guys are absolutely committed and trust each other completely, then you can make this work. My boyfriend lives an hour away from me(which isn't that far) and we make time to see each other despite our busy college and work schedules. On the other hand, we have been dating for two years and I don't know if you want to hear this but: When we met, I took his virginity and this made us very close emotionally and physically. I feel that I have found a rare and awesome guy...I wish more guys were like this.
Back to your question: you should talk this over with your boyfriend and reallt think about the situation, consequences, trust, etc.
2007-10-18 16:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mischa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying to break up with your boyfriend. You are now going into another phase of your life. Holding onto things in the past will stunt your complete grwth and transition.What is your boyfriend doing? Is he not going to college too? I dont mean to sound shady but that would be reason enough to leave him alone. If there are not any circumstances surrounding his ability to do better for himself, then I wouldnt hold onto that. Maybe he doesnt know how he can pay or what he wants to do or maybe he needs to go to the junior college then transfer to a university. Maybe you could talk to him and help guide him but you cant make a horse drink. Talk to him see where his head is at for his future and the next 5 years. If he is the man of your dreams and you all connect like that then you need to have his back, and help him progress, but on his own, so that you all can have something. Keep in mind that if his goals and ambitions dont equate anywhere near the levels that you are trying to go, then leave him in your dreams.
2016-05-23 13:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by bernice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, you can make it work but I don't think you'll enjoy your time at college very much. You'll spend too much time wondering what they're doing while they're away, and vice versa, and you'll either feel guilty for doing things on your own - thinking about how you're so far apart that it isn't fair to them for you to be enjoying yourself without them, or you'll feel jealous every time you think they are doing something, wondering if maybe they're enjoying it too much or who they're with etc. (Yes, I know this sounds cliché but here goes) Honestly, even if you're in the same college, I think you should take the time to see other people and do new things and see what happens. I think you need the time to learn more about yourself and others and discover what really makes you happy without being tied to the past when you have a whole future ahead of you. I think if you're meant to be together, things will work out in the end and you'll end up together.
2007-10-18 16:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, you'll probably drift apart. And, if it is meant to be - after college, you might get back together. My parents did just that and they've been married for over 50 years.
2007-10-18 16:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Delta D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it wont work maybe for a while it will but not for to long. you'll both be out enjoying your college experience partying having fun and in the end you'll both want to end it so you can just have fun in college and if it was ment to be then you'll meet up after college and resume your life together. good luck
2007-10-18 16:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the two of you are committed, have good communication, willing to meet up once a week, I'd say the chances are fairly high.
2007-10-18 16:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it working as you'll both be doing your own things and the first time one missed a call from the other - there will be worries about cheating and such.
2007-10-18 16:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in college and it is a time where you should explore who you are and what you want. Having a long distance b/f or a b/f at all is hinering.
2007-10-18 16:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zero or less. Just from you asking the question.
2007-10-18 16:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by mikeamadison@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not happening. People get drunk. S*** goes down. Not a good thing.
2007-10-18 16:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Hitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋