I really want to make my husband of 13 years feel appreciated and flattered. What makes you guys feel this way, and what would make you over the moon crazy about her (Other than her womanly wiles...) :) Thanks-
2007-10-18 16:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by happygirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget the material stuff .... anyone can go out and buy a present. To be honest with you the only thing i ever really wanted from my former wife was for her to tell me and show me that she appreciated me. I felt like I was taken for granted and expressed as much to no avail. It is the little things... a hug several times a day along with a kiss and just saying I am so glad I married you.... surprise him with his favorite meal .... go out and buy a DVD that you know he would love even if it isn't something you may not care so much for ....and watch it with him as you snuggle on the coach together..... like I said it is the little things.... there is a huge bonus in this for you as well... it is contagious.... he will start appreciating you more as well.
2007-10-18 16:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by DavidV 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him a good home cook meal just you and him. Dress in to something that he likes to see you in. Do not know what you mean about over the moon. To me it wood be a good night of extra actives. try it in ever place you never have done it before . Form one end of the house to the other. Go to the library and find some books on sex. You might look at penthouse Hot talk or Variations might help you out. Just let ever thing go and have fun.
2007-10-18 23:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actively engage in his hobbies with him.
If he's into boat racing, take him to a boat race and talk with him about the boats.
He'll be happy because he gets to talk about boats, you'll be listening and paying attention, and he gets to look smart because he'll be teaching you about something.
It doesn't matter if he's into stamp collecting, painting, cars, or yoga. Do something that he's into, then stay active with it.
The same way you'd be active with your kids' activities...do the same thing with him.
If my wife did it, I'd appreciate her even more. But she's not smart enough to understand this.
Hopefully you are, and in return he'll converse with you more, and show more love.
2007-10-19 09:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a room of his own to do whatever he pleases with...beer signs, bombshell babe pin-ups, grungy or tacky furniture, life-size cardboard cutouts of athletes, tools, stack of trashy mags, microfrige stocked with beer, the works. Anything he likes that you would otherwise not like he gets to keep in there. And never complain about it ever. If he wants to have a keg party with a bunch of pals in there when you want him to go with you to a wedding of some nondescript relative, let him have that party.
Honestly, this works. Just don't expect him to bend over backwards for you all the time...he's done enough of that already.
2007-10-18 23:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by John L 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The next time you wake up together in the morning with not much else to do, give him a hj.
2007-10-19 01:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by lovinglifeina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of all the qualities and accomplishments your husband has done and then tell him that you love him so much because of the qualities and accomplishments that he's done, then buy him tickets to his favorite sports teams' game. good ones!
that will do it.
2007-10-18 23:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he really wants to do and dont make him feel bad about his answer, men do shut down. I ve been married 8yrs but together for 15yrs.
2007-10-18 23:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by manwit2brains 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is...what haven't you done in the 13 years you have been married? please don't think me prude..because i have been married 13 years this coming jan....and my wife has made me feel special every day of our life together..yeah we've had our rough spots, but then who hasn't......think of the one thing he really enjoys...other than the obvious....and make it a day with him....good luck and i hope this helps
2007-10-18 23:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a bass boat, a motorcycle, or a huge TV. Trust me. Men are simple, and simple minds have simple pleasures.
2007-10-18 23:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋