I'm in the mood for some lovin' all day, and my husband comes home in the mood for an argument!! Help! I need some lovin'. What should I do?????
2007-10-18 13:55:07 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him nicely and don't be aggressive about it. Fix your problems first. All will follow thru. Then you be aggressive and tie him down somewhere and have your way! hahaha! Works for me!
2007-10-18 13:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver Natividad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often does he do this? When he came in did he start the argument before he thought you wanted sex or after you suggested it? Was he late getting home? Was this just a spur of the moment argument? Have you been arguing a lot lately? Has he been going out a lot? These are things to ponder... If all are yes your husband has a girl friend.. I hope not for your sake..... Good luck.. If you still need some loving you can call me I am single and available Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-18 14:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him before to find out what's his problem?
He may be under work related stress and the only place he can vent his stress is at home.
Speak to him nicely and give him a back rub. That'll make him relax and hopefully get him in the mood for some lovin.
2007-10-18 14:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by ecwh070 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him time to calm down. Maybe he just had a bad day at work. If you make it worse by trying to get him to talk about things when he just wants to sulk, let him have a few hours of sulking (depending on what time it is where you live) and then throw out all the signals. What does he respond to? Candles? Alcohol? A back rub? Do whatever it takes to throw out the signals (including skimpy clothing) that you're interested in more than an argument. Tell him you want to make his night. Good luck!
2007-10-18 14:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guess there is nothing you can do, sometimes when one is in a certain mood, that's it, there is no changing it. It's his loss. If he decides to change his mind, push him away and tell him that your mood left you after the argument. If he tries pretty hard and says sorry and does whatever it takes, let him squirm a little and then take him.
2007-10-18 14:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Perkymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound crazy, but, listen to your husband. Find out why he's REALLY in a sh***y mood when he comes home. Give him a chance to vent. Do you do that? Is it always about you? Let him know you care and sooner or later he'll come home in the mood. Communication is how you set the mood.
Feel me?
2007-10-18 14:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy cow! And he calls himself a man? First of all, don't argue with him. Whatever's wrong with him, let him relax for a while, have a beer, whatever. Then, don't try to talk him into it or anything, just try to find the right time (wait for a commercial) and start rubbing him and maybe he'll get in the mood. If not . . . shoot, there's something wrong with him.
2007-10-18 13:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my man see's that I'm in the mood for some lovin' and he walked thru the door in a bad mood----he adjust his mood real quick. He's always in the mood (lucky me)
2007-10-18 13:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
take a deep breath when he comes home, listen to what he's saying, don't just jump in and argue back with him. It throws them for a loop when it happens that way. Ask questions in a nonthreatening way about what made him upset. Then get seductive with him.
2007-10-18 14:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw. Poor baby...
Okay, sympathy over. Make him realize that you care, cuddle up to him, just relax him...and if he's any sort of man at all, he'll be in, if not quite the right mood, a better one.
2007-10-18 13:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Yuki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋