Intimacy lacking in the bedroom and Im about 2 seconds away from cheating?

Question

Im 24 years old Me and my Bf have been together for about 3 years. Im always in the mood and he is never in the mood. Lately ive been feeling really pushed away and rejected and it hurts... He goes out everyweekend He lies to me I have caught him in so many lies its unbelievable. Im starting to think that he may be cheating on me maybe all the trip to the gym before and after work means something else i dont know. I feel hurt and sad and Im about 2 seconds away from having an affair myself because quite frankly im just tired of feeling hurt i know i should leave but i really do love him and to top it of im not working right now im looking for a job so i feel like i have to keep swallowing all this crap until i get on my 2 feet and can b able to support myself what do i do? Please and be sincere and nice no one with smart *** answers please

Answer 1

i have to wonder how long u have been married have any kids/ any how all marriages seem to have these problems at times but if u really feel that unloved go 4 it but use protection and be safe now u will get all sorts of responds to this questions and many will say no way those will be the ones that think all marriages r made in heaven and thats all a bunch of shi* so follow ur heart friend i have been there and felt the same way many times b4 bless u

Answer 2

hmmm...talk to him, tell him how you feel, but leave out the waiting to leave till ur on your feet part, or you could just throw him on the bed and have your way (which works pretty well) loving someone like that is hard, but if u truly think leaving is the best answer see about moving in with a friend temporarily or with your parents temporarily, and if u feel u must get out but cant and have no where else to go then cheat, but dont let him find out and when u are able to leave make sure you tell him that u cheated and tell him why...goodluck and i hope u get some satisfaction

Answer 3

if you love him and he's mistreating you, you have to decide whether you love him or YOURSELF more. that being said, if you feel you have substantial evidence, confront him about it. he deserves a chance to explain himself, but take it with a grain of salt. if you need to get out, don't think twice about it....."once a cheater, always a cheater" is almost always the case....almost.
oh, and i know you may feel hurt, but don't lower yourself to his alleged level. if he's cheating, just break it off and keep your head held high; it seems like you have someone else in mind already.....but do not, i repeat DO NOT cheat. it's never worth it.

good luck

Answer 4

Well, I would just ask him straight out and see what he says. Tell him you are not sexually satisfied and maybe you can do some things to spice things up.
But, don't forget to tell him that if things don't change you don't want to go on like this.
As for being on your own 2 feet. Do you have to depend on him? Do you have any other friends that can help you if it doesnt work out?

Answer 5

It sounds like it's not working out..
but instead of cheating, just break up.

Because if you cheat, he WILL find out, and you'll still breakup in the end.

It will be best to just be nice about it, but let him go. Then pursue someone else.

Answer 6

it sounds more like you need to decide if you want to be in this relationship at all --- and im sorry he seems to be of the same opinion --- so why not sit down and talk it out --- decide to either make it work or cut it off clean --- best wishes

Answer 7

Don't be a fool...end the relationship and be the better person. You cheating solves nothing but makes you a betrayer, and says that you're okay being cheated upon yourself.

What goes around, comes around. You don't love that guy (wake up girl!) you love who you wish he was...and that person doesn't exist.